Re: Understanding Myself As A Cuckold

Thank you for your post. I too am a man questioning these feelings. I think we fear others thinking us perverts or having lost our minds. When in fact we are giving unselfishly to our wives. I know that all I want is for my bride of 25 years to fill sexual pleasure and to experience a full sexual life. I love her so much and she is my soul mate. I feel I cannot adequately give her what she needs and I desire her to have pleasure again. I will gladly give up this intimacy with her if it means she can find sexual fulfillment. It scares me sometimes but I know that I must press forward. I know that seeing her will provide me with pleasure so I guess that means it is not entirely a selfless act, but I truly feel I am putting my feelings secondary to her pleasure. I only hope that she can understand why I want this for her and that she will never stop loving me as her soul mate and husband. I am OK if she becomes sexually the exclusive property of her lover as long as she reserves her emotional soul for me.