Re: Cuckolding from the Start?

Yes, I am saying that I'm in it for other reasons.  What I meant is that some people aren't really prepared for everything that goes along with the sexual aspects of cuckolding. They think of it more of a sexual act or of getting to be a voyeur without realizing what else it entails, so they'll want it when they're really turned on and fantasizing even though they are not prepared emotionally. I'm not sure if I'm explaining that right.

I think you are right and can definitely experience growth from cuckolding. For me, I've never felt as connected to anybody as I did when I would come to him after being with someone else and he would show me that he still wanted me, maybe even more than before. It's hard to explain, but I really feel like there was something deep there in that kind of acceptance while it lasted. I can't speak to what he experienced, but I think he felt it too, at least at first before his insecurity and jealousy took over. I don't think people need different things per se, but I do think people are ready for or able to handle different things. I highly doubt that I'll ever change the way I feel, as you say. I'm convinced cuckolding is the ideal lifestyle.