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    • #21022
      Anonymous

      SPH is a big turn on for me. I’m not convinced that average is really 5ish, as most modern sources indicate. It seems every man my wife has been with has been bigger than average– and that for practical purposes, there are two sizes here: small and big. Is 5 inches really average? And at what point is small small?

    • #21059
      MatureMUK

      much seems to depend on where you source ‘average’ from. Africans are deemed longest overall europeans mid range and asians shortest.
      actually for most females the thickness is the real satisfaction and thicker normally means better results.
      size if. important for many men as its like comparing. physical aspects with others. females also. compare each other.
      in all areas though you are talking about an average ..so that includes the. well endowed as well as challenged.
      not all cuckolds for example have small penis. however most females do enjoy a larger. specimen though as always there are exceptions.
      so it’s actually a question females ought to answer…

    • #21148
      Anonymous

      I don’t think 5″ erect length is small at all, even it’s perhaps a bit less than the average you hear promulgated. I think that “average” is probably exaggerated though. Less than 4″ seems small.

    • #21149
      Anonymous

      but I’d bet most are somewhere between 4.5 and 6 inches

    • #21151
      tully

      my two cents is that smaller than 6″ is small

    • #21167
      Anonymous

      David, I am about 3 inches totoslly hard, so that’s smsll. In real life Five inches is average. I tell people and they don’t believe me about my size so i have shown them these photos and their response often like understand why you’re a cuckold

      • #21181
        Anonymous

        re “David, I am about 3 inches totoslly hard, so that’s smsll. In real life Five inches is average. I tell people and they don’t believe me about my size so i have shown them these photos and their response often like understand why you’re a cuckold”

        Agree 5″ is probably right around the universal average. Meaning 4 probably shouldn’t be considered super small and certainly can’t be uncommon. Have read of surveys conducted among U.S. college-aged men on spring break that put the average consistently much closer to 5 than 6. Have also read more than once that penis sizes do not correlate with the upward trend in human growth and stature. People ARE bigger than ever. Penis size though, has actually declined. As for cuckold impulses and desires, certainly size can be a common motivator, but so can all kinds of other things.

    • #21176
      living curious

      I think the size at which she is no longer satisfied is small, and that probably varies.

      • #21437
        Deb’sHubby

        Well put, living curious. I think there in lies the issue. My own mature wife is quite experienced and has come to view my “average” 5 or 5 1/2 inches as too small. She’s had cocks that are MUCH bigger than mine and now seems to have difficulty orgasming with me without anal.
        Of course, this may be only because she finds sex with other men more arousing than with me, her long time partner, but she has become something of a big game hunter and pursues sex with other more endowed men now.

        • #21820
          Anonymous

          That’s right. I am full 6″ but I am to small for my wife. Most of the time she doesn’t feel me inside. So, it is individual.

    • #21259
      Anonymous

      You Know there was a time in my life me & a friend thought about this and we said toto each other let’s ask 15-20 women to see what size they consider Average, Kinda Small but still okay and What they consider Small also what size would they said it was kinda getting to the big stage. Here was the oveeall results all of them said 4¾” up to about 6″ and most of them said over 6″ was getting to the big stage however about 8 out of 40 said 6″ was the start of getting into the big stage so the said kinda big. Now this is pretty interesting all of the women said anything from 3″-4½” was small but 35 out of 40 said 4″ and under was considered small to them the other 5 said 3½-4½” was small a lot of them said 4″-4¾”was Kinda Small but not bad still okay. But 9 females considered 4½”-5½” let me Break it down a bit more only 3 girls said 5¼” & 5½”was Kinda Small. If that makes sense.

    • #21525
      Bob

      My weenie is about 1″ soft and 3.5″ hard, so my weenie brings me some humiliation. Maybe that is why I sometimes hear laughter when people look in our direction when my wife and I are at our nude beach.
      My wife still says my weenie is average size, even though she has seen 1,000s of cocks at our nude beach and has sucked or fucked about 50 other cocks. She says she is still happy with my weenie.
      I normally remember to thank the men that have fucked my wife or letting my wife suck their cocks. They were always surprised, probably shocked, and very happy that I actually thanked them. I believe I should thank them because they give my wife so much pleasure that she would not get otherwise. I have often watched my wife have many very intense orgasms while being fucked by other men’s cocks. Sadly, my wife has never had an orgasm on my teenie weenie.
      My wife always has me give her orgasms by fingering and eating her pussy after I fuck her because she gets nothing out of my weenie fucking her.
      So I have determined that despite my wife’s claims that my weenie is plenty big, it is not big enough for her because she can never get an orgasm on it.


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    • #21928
      Lancelot4345

      when flacid I have have a smaller cock but when erect I have a full 5 inches+ with quite a bit of girth. For just Fucking..yes I guess a 10 inch cock would do the trick.. but I have read studies that most men with larger cocks suffer a higher rate of erectile dysfunction then men with smaller ones..and their ability to last longer is also shorter compared to some of us with smaller cocks. My wife normally achieves multiple orgasms she averages probably 3 during each session.. but I do perform a lot of foreply before penetration seldom oral unless she request or I am just hungry. I have been with only one other woman other than my wife..and always left her completely satisfied..with just my 5 inches..guess it all depends on the approach.

    • #29853
      Anonymous

      For me i love all sizez… like chocolate there is a cock size for every mood….want to enjoy being full get thick… want to be smashed doggy get a nice tipped 6 inch average and enjoy the hair pulling and arse slapping…. want to be reminded of ya last pap smear go the 10 inches plus… that will do your cervix the world of good. End of the day the passion and excitment and flirting kissing is what really gets a chicks blood flowing and turned on… confidence is all.

    • #29951
      Cathy & Jerry

      My little pud is practically non-existent when soft and is exactly 3 inches when hard. This is not only an embarrassment during sex but I’ve never known what it’s like to stand to pee. I always have to sit to pee and make sure I lean forward so I don’t pee out under the seat. I haven’t had sex with my wife in many many years and I’m happy with this because she’s getting some very nice cock inside of her attached to men she’s attracted to and know how to use those amazing large cocks. She’s a happy happy lady lol.

    • #30010
      4DecadeCuck

      I am small. I’m on the left in the pic. The head of his cock is bigger than my entire penis.


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    • #30957
      Ryan11

      My bf is a little under 5 inches. He thinks he’s average, but I think he’s small compared to other guys I’ve been with. He probably is average, but in my mind he’s still small

    • #31106
      Small Dave

      My penis is 2 inches when erect. Every woman I’ve slept with has made me aware of their disappointment. There are lots of positions you can’t do. It slips out. They ask if it’s in yet. You have to jerk it more rapidly because you haven’t got the length for longer strokes and that means you cum more quickly. If you manage to go on for longer they get bored or fall asleep. Women get frustrated, stressed and angry when you can’t satisfy them. Pretending that sex is pleasurable when it isn’t, pretending that size doesn’t matter, pretending to have what you don’t have, to be what you aren’t is stressful and horrible for everyone. Becoming a cuckold and accepting myself was the most wonderful relief.

      • #31530
        slaveofwife

        small Dave I totally agree with you. our wives deserve better!

    • #33898
      HubbywantsSensualloving

      To be honest i did a survey ans asked over 1000 hundred women which ended up about 1330
      Answers were
      1. Size doesn’t matters
      2. Yes Size Kinda matters
      3. Yes it matters

      Well after i counted 610 said size doesn’t matter

      So that left 720
      And surprisingly 110 said, Yes size matters

      So most all of the ones that said Yes size matters
      Said anything under 5″ was small
      But 5″-5 1/2″ was Consider Kinda Small.

      Now for the Rest of 610 Women said Yes size kinda matters

      Here are the results for the remaining
      60% agree 4 1/2 – 5″ kinda small
      40% agree 4″- 1/2″ kinda small
      As for small 50% said anything 4 1/4″ or under that and rest of them said 3-4″ basically under 4″

    • #35868
      dabs

      Personally I think less than 5″ is on the small side, at 3.5″ I consider my self to be very small.

    • #35876
      30sCreampieCpl

      Early on when Mindi and I started having men join us we attended a total of 5 swinger house parties over a period of 18 months. from what I observed most swing couple hubs no matter how tall etc came in between 5″ and 6 1/2″ some smaller like 4″ and some larger 6.5 to 7″ and a few much larger 8+”.

      I quickly realized not only do I cum too fast to please Mindi my very thin 5″ was way outclassed even by an average swinger hub. It was humbling being in my late 20s seeing grey beard walking around waving 7-8″ cocks that made a every women there give a good look.

      Andy

    • #36375
      Anonymous

      I’m 4.5 inches which isn’t massive but isn’t the smallest.

    • #37176
      ed

      Small, medium, or large. I’m often told its rather large…tell me your opinion.


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    • #37201
      Quadwarrior

      Lol here’s what you call small and why my wife needs someone else to be fucking her

    • #37273
      cuck4life

      My exwife and my wife now say that they would take girth over length any day. In my teens and early 20’s I was 6″ but as I gained weight I lost length. Now I am 4″ with a thin cock. My wife now showed no interest in sex until she had drinks with an old college friend that then took her to his room. That night he screwed her 3 times with a cock she said was as thick as a beer bottle and she had multiple orgasms from intercourse for the first time. She continued seeing him for several years where we estimate they screwed over 100 times.

    • #38699
      40HSquirter

      For me, it is lack of thickness. I am over 6 inches but barely 4 inches around. After she has been with her bull it takes several days before she can feel me.

    • #38764
      punx9909

      I’m around 5.5″ and it’s really thin. Though long enough my wife says it’s really skinny and she’s never orgasmed from sex with me. I always have to use my hand or tongue (kind of relegated to that anyway). Her FWB can make her cum from sex as he is longer and WAAAY thicker. So, it seems size isn’t quite as important as thickness after a certain point. For instance, 5.5″ and thick may be better than 7″ and skinny. But I’m not a woman so who knows lol.

    • #39044
      mrdnrm

      I think one’s cock also shrinks with age, when I was younger I was 7.25 inches as I got old it started to shrink, now I have 6.25 inches. My cock is fatter than average as when I was younger a dollar bill would not wrap fully around it, now it does by a almost half an inch. When flacid my cock looks very small about an inch but my wife refers to it as a grower. I am a Cuckold because I cum very fast most often under 15 seconds. A long time for me at my best was just under a minute.


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    • #39048
      CRCouple

      I agree that a cock will get smaller with age. Happened to me. It is really noticeable when flaccid.

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