wannabe222
My lovely sexy wife and I have been married for over 12 yrs. are madly in love and share a wonderful sex life. She is by no means a prude…..we use sexual innuendos often and we’re considering vacations with nude beaches. I’m around 5’8″ and by no means well hung and she’s an inch taller. About 3 years ago, while in bed, she asked me what my greatest sexual fantasy was. I hesitated for a bit….then told her it was seeing her being pleasured by another man. She was a little surprised, but at least, didn’t act like I was weird. Since then, we’ve used this fantasy all the time during sex, physically and verbally and she really gets into the roleplay. We use a lifelike dildo often and she really plays up the part, which she knows really turns me on. We’ve even used the fantasy in texting when she’s away from me. Lately, I’ve subtly tried to get to the next level…encouraging her to open a few more buttons and wear shorter skirts when we’re out….mentioning when I think guys are checking her out. I obviously wasn’t subltle enough because I think she felt a little pressured and she told me that our fantasy is just that….fantasy for our bedroom, and we should keep it that way. When I had asked her what her fantasy was she said it was to be with the man who swept her off her feet and was dominating with her…..only wanted her for himself. She felt I was trying to get her to be shared…and that’s not what she wants. She’s fine with the fantasy….she says it really is a turn-on, but wants to keep it that way. I know that her previous husband and relationships were all with tall, muscular alpha type men, so I know that’s the type she is attracted to. I guess I need some great advice in getting her to the next level.