Re: Should I go to next level?

petitemistress,

Welcome to my site!

let’s talk about sharing within a marriage: the act of sharing you does not actually make him a cuckold – that really depends on his role or perspective with regard to sharing you. If he were the dominant partner in the marriage and who you dated/played with was up to him or he chose when and how you would pleasure such partners, he’s not a cuckold – he’d be your Dom. A cuckold shares his wife from a position (role or perspective) of diminished authority; you are expected and encouraged to make the decisions regarding which men become sexual partners and what pleasures and intimacies you offer them.

You two are definitely heading toward the cuckold/hotwife end of things, but remain in a bit of a limbo status I’d say because you two aren’t fully discussing your needs or desires with each other. He obviously wants to sjare you and no husband is going to post you as he did and support your web site creation without having very intense thoughts of how visually sharing you can and likely will lead to physically sharing you.

I’m assuming he knows about the sites you set up – if not, that’s a pretty huge mistake on your part, but can be dealt with given his act of initiating sharing you online.

You shouldn’t be having trysts – you should be dating as a hotwife and sharing the experiences fully with your husband. When you two share in this experience together, it becomes another bond (and a strong one) between you and another way of sharing intimacy together. What can ruin this and make this a threat to your relationship is when you’re not fully sharing your experiences.

What frightens a cuckold husband and turns him against you (and sharing you) is when what you’re doing is more threatening than arousing. The way you keep it arousing is by sharing openly and including your cuckold in every aspect of your activities. When you keep things from him, even small details, you leave the door open for him to doubt and fear.

If your sites – or at least one of them – are not already cuckold centric, I’d highly suggest you consider that. Not only is that more accurate, but it would include your husband and make it transparent you’re married and sexually available vs married and cheating. Also, the number of genuine cuckold/hotwife sites is very, very low and you could greatly increase your revenues this way.

As you can see here, I have some experience with cuckolding and even more experience with the web (professionally) – please feel welcome to discuss your options with me.