Moving Into The Cuckold Couples Home

Only if you become a thought out poly amorous threesome with defined roles including household chores, finances, etc. Sex aspects will sort out but all that other stuff is toxic if not thought out.

Much better if she just weekends with her Bull at HIS place.

much depends on dynamics within a relationship. not recommended live in unless cuck is fully submissive and is happy in a third place role in spare room doing chores etc.
odd stay over is normally acceptable but full time actually displaces hubby to no mans land. somer cucks are happy with this.others will find it raises conflict issues ( other than sexual arena)
would recommend unless use of self that she stay over at bulls weekend ( Friday Saturday nights) or him at yours say every. few weeks.
teh fact. you are asking show you not comfortable with this and probably aware the issues it can raise. can damage wife cuck relationship too if not careful.
weekends etc. spent with bull will over a few months give us much better idea if we Ok with longer or find jealousy? anger issues etc.

we have spoke about this, but it would need some serious discussion between all involve to establish ground rules etc, but something we will consider with the right man, until then it will be staying at lovers for weekend, or him staying weekends with us

He should absolutely move in with you. There is nothing at all wrong with that. But as others have said, all of you need to get together before hand to discuss any ground rules, if any.
Please let us know how it goes.

Do you have an update? How did it go?

Do you two have kids? We’re just starting out but have begun to think about this and considering that aspect with daughters at home. Lots of considerations and benefits but complicated as well. Have read the guides on here about going down this path but would be intense to say the least.

It certainly will take things to a different level, help define roles and integrate the bull into the family. We’ve had some early discussions on hosting and what comes after that. Very intense.

@portscuck what is the hold up? Why has there not been any progress on the bull moving in? It should not be taking this long. Get the move on and make it happen!

I’ve been invited to join a cuckold household before and it can be complicated and risky. It’s a lot like dating vs moving in together, except now you have three people and that always has its risks. You understand here that your wife is asking you and it’s subject to your approval, and if it is not working out later you will need to be willing to voice your issues even if you are “the low one.” In my opinion many couples see it as a fantasy, i.e. living it 24/7 but it really just becomes another domestic life and is not too much fun. Plus in my case my own place was better than theirs so I only did it for half a week!

We’ve had live-in lovers, and it was nice as well as convenient. When the wife and the lover have easy access to one another, it makes it nice. The lover can get sex when he wants it and so can the wife. I have woken many times to my wife and our live-in fucking in our bed, right next to me.

The live-in often does become the wife’s primary and the husband becomes secondary, but that happens. Often this type of cuckold relationship can become polyamorous because the wife has feelings for the live-in, not just sexually. The changes the dynamic of the relationship. Often this type of situation starts out sexual and becomes more.

When the lover becomes a live-in, the cuckold’s fantasies become a daily reality. And the wife has two men who care for her. It is the wife and the live-in who benefit most,but that can be argued.

What many people fear about this type of situation is that the “primary” relationship will change. Surprise, when the wife has sex with others, the relationship changes. For too many people, having a live-in makes everything too real. But in reality, having a live-in makes it very real and it makes you think about what you wanted to be more fantasy than reality.

When a Bull moves in with a couple, he becomes THE man of the house. It happens. If you are okay with this, then good. Let it happen. If you are not willing to let another man be THE man, you may want to rethink this.