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Wow that was a quick response!

I do understand the strong feeling of jealousy. That is a natural reaction with many cucks. But keep in mind that jealousy is a very destructive force. It can become extremely damaging to a relationship if not kept under control. You MUST keep it under control and convert it to arousal.

What you first need to do is sit down with your wife and discuss it. Let her know you do have feelings of jealousy but you will do your best to keep it entirely under control. Let her know that you fully understand that she needs much more than what one guy can give her, and that you “accept” that. Notice I said “accept” as it is not your place to “approve” but only to accept her decision

Then talk to her about what she views as some ground rules. For example, is she going to have one lover or many? Personally, I do believe it is much better for YOU if she has many, as her “attachment” to lovers is spread over many and is not concentrated on just one guy. So, in that discussion, if I were you, I would encourage her to have many.

As a part of that discussion, talk about what she wants your role to be. Will you be watching? If not, will you get reports after wards. Will you be allowed to fuck her after she has been fucked by others? Will you be allowed any pussy at all?

So as clearly as possible, define both of your roles. Agree that the rules for the roles are flexible and subject to change upon further discussion as you each experience more.

At the end of your response, you ask some important questions. How do you keep it from the kids, for example. You can make an effort to keep it from them, but my feeling is that it is better to be open about it with them. You can either wait to discuss it with them after then discover it, or talk aobut it before hand. You will be surprised at how understanding and accommodating most kids will be once they hear the full situation. For example, you can explain that their mom needs more personal attention then just you can give her, and so they will see some of her boyfriends coming over and spending the night.

As far as a long term relationship with a boyfriend or just occasional flings, that really depends on what she needs. My take is that it is likely to be a mixture of the two, like one or two long term bfs and also some flings.

Will it be strangers or guys you know? It is generally safer to go with guys you all know. But that could be harder for you to accept. That is something that needs to be discussed with her.

Finally, you asked if you will get to fuck her. As I said already, have that discussion. My strong belief is that a submissive cuck should NOT be allowed any pussy. You had mentioned that she is the dominate sexual partner, making you the submissive. If she decides you should not get any pussy (it is her choice and not yours) then discuss the rules under which you can be provide relief. For example, will you be allowed to jack off at will, or only after she as been fucked or only while watching her or just what. In my own case, to set an example, I am allowed to cum ONLY when there is a black cock fucking my ass. That makes me more feminine and submissive, btw.

Please let us all know how it goes.

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