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Home › discussion › Lifestyle Discussions › Getting Started › Struggling – from Own Race to Interracial
My wife and I started off this lifestyle around 2 years ago, when we first met with a guy who is our own race (asian chinese in Hong Kong) and started as ‘I watch, I presence, they do it’ kind of approach. It went well and I maintained as her no. 1 in life while he was her no. 1 sexually.
Until around 3 months ago around christmas time, she asked for meeting someone new because she said she ‘feels bad & unfair about doing it with another asian guy but not me’. I was kind of shocked because I never knew she thought so. I asked what she wanted, she said she wants to find a white sex partner instead.
We have discussed that over the last couple of months and I am not comfortable with the idea, because I am very worried about her falling deeper and deeper and i will become a no. 2 in her life, even if the current guy told me I should try either finding a white guy for her, or move to a 3some approach, because (he said) ‘she may end up doing it behind your bad which will be even worse.’.
I don’t know what to do or think. I am very confused.
In ANY cuckold relationship there is always that risk, even with the same race. It is NO different with going interracial. The worry about that should be no different. If you were not worried about it with a Chinese man, then don’t be worried about it with a white or black man.
I HIGHLY recommend it that you do it.
Let it know how it is going.