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Kenzie_b
My fiancé and I have been dating for almost 4 years and we will be getting married in December 2020. We talk about different scenarios a lot, we built up to our first in person experience with a guy I had been intimate with 6-7 years ago. I went to his house as I trusted him, we had sex, it was a decent experience but I was very nervous the whole time. When I got back, my fiancé was upset, he didn’t know how to process his feelings and since then we have worked through that, he is more interested in this than ever before and I don’t know where to start. There is the option of going back to the same guy but he doesn’t understand the cuckold lifestyle and is quite disrespectful of our wishes.
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Voyeurcuck
Going back to the same guy sounds like a bad idea. As you said, he’s not respecting you and your boyfriend’s relationship or wishes, and exactly having sex with that guy was setting your fiancee off right?
You need to start on something fresh. And if you want to keep your relationship you should let him find your next lover, not taking someone from your catalogue of old lovers. This would involve your fiancee actively in the lifestyle and don’t lit a fire of hidden jealousy at him.
Be sure you talk this through in details before you meet. What is allowed, what is not and be completely honest with each other. But never go behind your fiancee’s back like it sounded you dit with your experience, this is the safe way to end relationship
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Kenzie_b
Thank you, it was his idea to choose that guy. This is more so his thing and wants me to be more proactive in it. Nothing was done behind anyone’s back.
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Hotwifesue
I suggest finding a new guy. Make sure to relive your experiences with your guy.
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Kenzie_b
That’s what we have done. I have been looking but it has been so hard to find the right person.
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Say_Oy
Hey, I’m here….
🙂 Seriously, try defining what you are looking for and then looking at people you know from your hobbies and things you enjoy. If you find someone attractive at events you like that gives you a head start on making that emotional connection. Don’t be afraid to approach a man you find attractive in your active life. Even if we balk or have conditions / complications we appreciate the interest. -
stonemtncouple
Yes it is difficult to find the right Bull for a Cuckold relationship. Use the Cuckold match making sites like this, fetlife, even single men on swinger sites like SDC and SLS. Some single men will be certified and verified on these sites and might be familiar with the Cuckold dynamics or even experienced is our type of relationships.
My wife has been very successful using SDC and SLS to find Bulls. -
slaveofwife
Don’t give up you sound like a beautiful person. Hope it all works out for you both.
If my wife did that id be ecstatic.
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Kenzie_b
Voyeurcuck
Hotwifesue
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stonemtncouple
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