When the husband loves the wife, the anguish of the husband not being able to satisfy his wife sexually it’s painfull, with many doubts and mental conflicts. Gradually he wants solutions and he develops a compersion feelings. The Husband’s satisfaction is projected onto wife’s happiness.

Hi TransStar,

My wife being the kind of woman that she is, we were already 80% there really. She is the bigger wage earner, she generally gets what she wants in the home and at work. By her own admission, she is a control freak.
The remaining 20% (it may have been less) revolved around me relinquishing control of a few personal aspects to our…[Read more]

How did you go about getting your wife to agree to an FLR? Mine thinks it means it will be more work for her. I’m trying to help her realize she can delegate to me at her whim.

My wife sounds quite the opposite as far as shopping is concerned. She will shop till she she drops! There was a time when I would be dragged round shops kicking and screaming but now she either goes out on her own (or with her bf) or if with me, I find somewhere to relax and have a pint or two!

Maybe your wife doesn’t feel comfortable sleeping…[Read more]

Hi Ricky.

Thanks for the input. I have accepted your friend request by the way.

Believe me, I am letting my wife dictate the pace of everything. I have to. We agreed to a FLR and all that comes with it. I must just simply support and encourage her choices. And where I get an opportunity to have some input, then I will for sure!

There…[Read more]