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This doesn’t sound like something the two of you are onboard with, I wouldn’t call this “cuckolding”, I’d call it “cheating”, even though you know. The reason I say this is because you’re being locked out of the whole “affair”, no say in anything and she’s keeping everything that’s happening with the two of them, secret from you aside from the fact that you know it’s going on. If he has no respect for you and doesn’t want to even talk to you about their affair, then again, it’s not cuckolding. She should also show some respect and appreciation by bringing you in to the affair by telling you and showing you what is happening and convincing her lover that he should talk to you and listen to what rules you might have to continue to allow her to see him. At this point in time, there’s more disrespect for you being shown by the both of them then there is anything else. Now, this is our opinion as a cuckolding couple for 19 years, maybe someone else might have thoughts of their own in regards to the situation you’re currently in. Be careful Joe, watch them carefully.
