Reply To: Finally Told My Wife, She is hurt by what I said

surprised no more offering input. not an easy place to be as emotive and can and will affect relationships. many wives given time .opportunity can cuck a husband if right man comes along . you will often see women doing so if a man is famous.powerful etc a these are very high turn on’s. some men go for enter live with no rules while others get supposed months or even years down the line with a sudden sexual awaking by wife.
since you have. let cat out of bag we can only deal with what we find occurs as she digest it or set it aside in her mind for now. she will not forget!
many can once given that idea of free to have another man without ramifications slowly. change attitudes a drop inhibitions to play with thought. and in some cases but not all, decide to dip toe in water.
here is where having her meet.chat to lot’s of men and ideal contact physically such as dancing..can offer best potential for you. encourage her to go swimming .dancing lessons.gym even evening classes. do tell her se looks fit .sexy and attractive. all females need that feeling they are wanted. by suggesting she goes with another man we have in a way rejected her… feeling that ” how can you love me” will surface. all needs to be dealt with as it merges. constantly reassure her you adore her. flowers now and again etc surprise events ? theatre etc. where she has. an interest. we want her to realise you do in fact love her deep even if we are ‘flawed’ in that we. would be happy for her to find a better man in bed now and again.