Reply To: Getting close but need a little push

worry here is that she saying chatting to gf’s when she chatting to him. not ideal as honesty and communication needed for a strong relationship especially when we have open marriage.
fine to have a lover /bull but hiding it is not good. gives mistrust . is there an emotional bond there that she feeling strongly about? bear in mind. not unknown for an ex lover form past to surface and want to reclaim lost ground. potentially even on a permanent basis ! be careful how you proceed.