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You are welcome. I really do believe it is better to have multiple lovers. My wife has a great many and we both love that she does. If one gets too demanding of her to become exclusive to him or becomes uncomfortably possessive, and that does happen, it is easy for her to dump him as she has plenty of others to satisfy her.

As far as kids, they are very adaptable It is surprising just how much they can adapt to this kind of situation. The key here, however, as you BOTH continue to stay together and interact with the kids as you normally would, and appear to be very happy with this lifestyle in front of them, showing them that you both are happy. It is when unhappiness is shown or or there appears to be a great deal of tension that there are problems with the kids. So you must avoid that at all cost.

How do you tell the kids? It can be very simple. Adjust what you tell them according to their maturity level, however. A simple statement such as, “Hey kids. Mom is going to start having some boyfriends come over. I am perfectly okay with that.”

If need be, you can expand that with statements that there may be nudity in the house at time, and emphasize that is normal and okay, or that you may be in panties or girly nighties at times to do role play, etc. Don’t go overboard with explaining at first. Let it sink in, then let them ask questions. But be HONEST with the answers. For example, if asked if that means mom is having sex with her boyfriends, be very honest about it.

Gracie