Reply To: A discussion about cuck mentality

This is one of the better threads on this site. Most of everything I read above seems real to each of you. I agree with most of it from experience. One can only talk from personal experience as fact for oneself, however that same statement can only at best become a generalization for cuckolds. For instance, a cuckold is a subordinate person. It’s not a fact only a generalization.

For us, I am Cuckold for sure and I greatly and passionately love being one. I am a big dominating control freak. I am a small business owner and control everything at work and home. My Hotwife is very submissive and does what she is told. My Hotwife has a very hard time expressing herself and is a very pleasing person. She had never did or say anything to hurt anyone’s feelings. Until she gets a few drinks in her, yeah o’boy, sometimes a hard way for me to learn things.

It short, I was aware of my shortcomings in the bedroom before we met over 34 years ago, but I could only mask it over a few years of marriage. I knew it was me that would have to make adjustments in the bedroom before we self destructed, as she was reluctant to fully express herself. For me it was my deep love for my wife that I was ready to become submissive in the bedroom and surrender all control. But I had to be the one to introduce the thought of another man to satisfy her sexually. It went beyond persuasion to the point of me telling her she had to do it for both of us. She was a reluctant Hotwife right up to her third lover who rocked her hard. That was what really changed everything for us.

We have been a Hotwife and Cuckold Couple since 2003. Since that turning point she has fucked over 40 different men. Some assholes, some good one nighters, some quickies on the beach or in a parking lot outside a club or pub and a few long term steady lovers for two to four years each. My cock has been caged since March of 2018 and I have been pussy free since January 2021. I am only allowed to cum by jacking off and only after she has had a lover that made her cum, and has cummed inside her and I have eaten her clean. Once that has been accomplished she will unlock my cock and I am free to jack off while she and her lover watch me. Oh and yes I am still that dominate figure outside the Hotwife and Cuckold situation or bedroom.

I love very much being her Cuckold Husband, over the past few years we have started telling others outside our circle about who we are. In 2020 she started wearing a necklace with the key for my cage. She doesn’t wear it around friends and family, however has started wearing it out in public in our local area, prior to that it was only outside our local area. This is an incredible turn on for me. I am so looking forward to her telling others that I am her caged cuckold.