Reply To: Introducing our White Bull to our 19 year old son

It’s all speculative anyhow, at least when it comes to an actual situation where we’d be active with another man, but that’s the kind of thing I don’t really like to consider
when I think of my 21 year old son. Somehow it just feels different than the idea of his older sister knowing. Honestly I don’t think she would probably be all that suprised or even weirded out by it. I believe she has had glimpses of things, toy-wise and maybe even chastity related that probably would clue her to some things about her parents.
She wouldn’t share those kinds of things with him, but I worry about how he might see me even knowing that. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with feeling these desires and living them within a loving relationship, but that doesn’t mean I think it’s ideal or a thing that could work for most people. I do think for a lot of men it involves a self-perception of inadequacy and lack of confidence. I wouldn’t wish it for him unless he comes to that determination on his own.