Re: Confused

I know you directed your comments to Luvr, but I thought I might chime in with a few thoughts. I am not a cuckold, but I hope to be someday, so please keep that in mind as you read this. The first one is a word of caution. Any successful alternative lifestyle (swinging, poly, cuckolding, it doesn’t matter) must be built on the foundation of a strong relationship that incorporates honesty, trust, and effective communication.  Her history of cheating on you and lying to you is not an encouraging start. I’m not saying it’s a deal breaker (only you can decide that), but it’s something to be wary of. 

My next piece of advice is to read, read, read, and once you’ve read just about everything you can find on cuckolding (real resources, not porn or stories) take some time to do some soul searching. There are many different motivations that drive cuckolds, and you have to identify what yours are. You have to figure out if your desire to keep her happy and satisfied is strong enough to override the jealousy, frustration, and other mixed emotions that come with being her cuckold. 

This site is a great resource, there are many folks here that can offer tons of advice. But the final decision is up to you. It’s one that you will want to make after extensive research, soul searching, and sober deliberation. Your entire world will change if you commit to this. Good luck!