Re: How can I change my wife from a Cheater to a Cuckoldress ??

Buddy it's almost hard to knwo where to begin.  I honestly wonder what you definition of cuckolding is.  A cheater is by deifnition a cuckoldress.  Perhsp you want more.  To be involved.  But you also say in your post that she didn't want to cuckold you but wanted to make you do bi stuff as humiliation, again that's a type of cuckolding.  You are a cuckodl buddy.  Or at least were.  And accoring to what you wrote you were happy then.  Anyways, in general I think you have to begin with letting your wife cuckold you teh way she wants.  if it's fucking other men and not telling you, then accept it. Slowly she will ease you in.   But I've never liekd husbands who only want to be cuckolded on THEIR terms, the whole point is it to be on your WIFE'S or her BULL'S terms.

But to answer your specific questions

1) She wasn't your marriage when she “cheated” was she?  She fucked another man b/c she wanted to, and she didn't tell you because she didn't want you to know?  Now why she didn't want you to know….  need a lot more info to answer that I think.  Maybe not telling you added to the spice of it.

2)  So what you're saying is when she dominates you she dominates, and when she doesn't she's nice.  I don't see the confusion.  The question is why does she not dominate you now.  Perhaps she has a change of heart and she feels “guilty”  I'd say senses your confusion of cuckolding is and so has withdrawn to being what a “proper” wife is.  The confusion is in you not her.  She fucks other men… Accept it.  She doesn't tell you… Accept it.

3) Obviously she wants to cuckodl you.  what you need to do is back off and just open the door.  Don't push her through, just let her know it's ok and give her the space to do it.  And also the normal things that cuckolds do to get their wives going (watching cuck porn, commenting on other guys… there is a big list)

4) Very normal for a cuckold to feel that way, so you're fine.

5?) Again in cheating she was a cuckoldress.  Don't worry she'll cheat again, just don't freak out when she does, be happy and give her more room, don't get all anxious and excited and fuck it up.