Re: New York City Area

exploreinct64 said:

Thanks for the reply. Nope it is not easy in terms of finding someone to chat with nor someone who might actually be a real possibility for us.  The guys are usually way to pushy, but more importantly they are not sexy, or creative in their approach.  They immediately speak in a vulgar way and presume certain things about us as a couple, and where our desires lye.  What they should do is take it easy, chat some and get to know the couple.  Find out what makes them tick, what they seek. What they have already done and then figure out how to have some fun with them, whether online or in real time.  Be fun, sexy and slowly begin to take on the alpha role once you have learned what we desire and how that desire works within your own needs.

 

What I like about this site is your exploration of the mental aspects of this which is my opinion what makes the idea of a hotwife so arousing. 

 

BTW for some reason my computer wont allow me to downlead the chat software.  I'll give it another try tho.  Have a good one