Marriage Evolved › discussion › Lifestyle Discussions › Getting Started › So near, yet so far. › Re: So near, yet so far.
It’s been some time since I last posted on here but as most, if not all of you who are on this site will know, the cuckold path is never a straight forward one. My last post related to how my wife called a halt to our cuckold journey very early on, when everything seemed to moving along very nicely. Over the last couple of months, my wife has had some time to reflect on the situation and has now set the ball rolling again but more on her terms.
Both of us are naturally submissive and over the years we have managed to maintain a “Switch” relationship. Both of us taking turns at being “Top”. Over the last few months it has become apparent to us that the current status quo isn’t sustainable in the long term.
My wife in general life is a much more assertive character than I am and when it comes to our sex lives, out of the two of us, she is the most dominant naturally. While this is good news for me, it means there is quite a hole in my wife’s needs that isn’t getting filled (Pardon the analogy). So my wife has come to understand that she is now in a position to feel more comfortable with the idea of introducing a 3rd party to our marriage. That 3rd party has quite a specific role to play. Primarily a role of dominance over my wife.
It is very early days but she has set about looking for such a man. If a suitable candidate is found, there are going to be limitations to his role…..to start with. To scratch my wife’s sexual itch. From there, other facets to our cuckold marriage may present themselves, such as will the candidate experience my wife’s delights as a one off or will she choose to make it a regular occurrence with her Dominant? There is nothing to say that the 1st candidate will sufficiently satisfy her and so leading her to try several others?
This brings us to the question of Hotwife or Slutwife, the former would be my preference of course. I’m quite sure there is the perfect Dominant out there for her and once she has found him, will a relationship on an emotional level develope? The possibilities are potentially endless.
I am happy for my wife to choose what she will and will help her to make and then support her decisions come-what-may.
For now, I am back in chastity and her sexual requirements are only mounting. My involvement with her sexually is now limited to giving her pleasure by hand, tongue or toy. The longer I am locked up, the less useful I become if she chooses to use my dick to satisfy her which should only reinforce to her her need for a potent bed partner. I know I am stating the obvious but things are already unfolding in the ways described on this site and others. Is the writing on the wall? Time will tell.
