Re: Whimpy Fag Cuckold Wantabee with no balls seeks advise

You made a good post – explained your situation well.

I can try to help you, but honestly, the buik of the effort has to be yours. I often see or hear or people who want their wife 'seduced' into this. While i can understand their desire to see this fantasy lived out, wanting it without investing their own effort is usually the sign of someone either lazy or unwilling to admit their desires to their wife. Don't be that guy.

Having only experienced your dicklet, your wife has absolutely no idea what she's missing so it's like telling someone blind how awesome red is.

Bottom line is it starts with you: you have to open a dialogue with your wife. It's up to you to explain to her that she's been missing out on a fundamental human experience and out of your love for her, you want her to experience what nature intended she enjoy.

Have you ever discussed/shared or explored other fantasies together? I mean anything at all of a sexual nature. I ask because if this is going to be the first time you've ever brought up a sexual topic, it's just going to be that much more difficult, but if you've been able to discuss sexuality in the past, you're much better off.

For the reluctant, I usually suggest bringing up some of these ideas as dreams i.e. by saying “Honey, I had this strange dream last night where…” and you share a simple, but obviously erotic scenario you think she'll respond to based on knowing her (can't really help you there).

The benefits to this method are :

1. being a dream, anything is possible
2. being a dream, you're not responsible for the content
3. being a dream, if she doesn't react well, it's easily left behind

It's common for wives to react negatively to discussions or ideas of her with other men even if the idea is appealing to them simply because they can't imagine it's something you would react positively to and/or they are embarrassed to admit such a thing appeals to them. These are also the reasons you've not had these discussions with her, so unless one of you gets off the fence, this sucker ain't going anywhere.