Re: Wife Having Lover’s Child

Can’t advise on your particular situation but my wife and her lover did decide to have a child together. From my point of view this has been wonderful. I loved being a dad from the moment she told me she was pregnant and I love the fact that she has given herself so completely to her lover and denied me (we have no sexual contact at their request). It wasn’t what I’d planned but it seems a very natural culmination of cuckold lifestyle that I enjoy so much. for her it was a very natural development of the loving relationship she enjoys with her alpha male. Race isn’t an issue for us (she’s part asian and we are both white) but I don’t pretend to be the biological father and don’t look alike.

I struggle a bit with your last sentence. to my mind the decision must be theirs. Your part is in dealing with what they decide. Best wishes with whatever happens next.