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      N&V

        Hey, we are a married couple looking for advice on how to proceed in this lifestyle. We are new, but have been discussing taking our marriage to this level for some time now. We are a inter-racial couple, im white and my wife is black. She has always been very interested in seeing me go bi for her, and over time she has slowly but sweetly gotten me more into the sub/domme aspect of our sex life. She is naturally dominant, while i enjoy submitting to her completely. Over time she has gotten me used to being her “sissy faggot”: dressing in bras and panties, strapon fucking me, and giving me sweet handjobs while playing with my ass. More recently she has been introducing humiliation into our sex life (telling me im too small, too feminine now to satisfy her, wanting to lock up my “clit”, etc.), and shes admitted that she really wants to introduce a big dick alpha male into our bedroom for her and me to have fun with and share. We have been chatting with a guy online who really seems like a good match for what we both are looking for, and it seems to be getting serious now…to the point where we are planning to invite him to service both of us.

        Any tips and advice on how to proceed with this would be very much appreciated.

        Thanks!

      • #32026
        BULL4you2

          advice?
          go slow. be open. talk to each other.
          if you are married you have a SINGLE relationship.

          when you invite/allow a BULL into your life you create 4 relationships:
          Husband-Wife; H-B; W-B; B-W-H
          it is much more important that you open, honest, and clear in your communications.

          if this is your first time,
          I think it is often better to find someone that is distant from you.
          (distance makes the heart grow fonder, and prevents bumping into people at the wrong time.)

          good luck.
          go forward.
          ask questions.
          BULL 4you2

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