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    • witless
        October 8, 2012 at 9:10 am
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        I do not know what I can do to assist my wife to accept dates with other men.

        I have explained that I want this because I want her to feel more empowered and reaffirm her desirability as a bed partner.  While she has repeatedly said she only want me and cannot be sexually involved without an emotional commitment, she has confessed a fantasy of having several men running their hands over her naked body.

        I am not submissive and do not want to be humiliated.  I want her to feel the joy of being wanted (she thinks that  have to say she is beautiful because I am her husband).

        I have ordered a couple of DVDs that feature cuckolding and I take her to a local strip club that caters to couples.

        What can I do?  I want so badly to see her enjoy her sexuality, independence and the pleasure of recreational sex with a variety of men.

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        Keymaster
          October 11, 2012 at 7:24 am
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          #10531

          Find out why she’s reluctant to make this a reality and work on those issues to enable her to move forward.

        • woodie54
            October 25, 2012 at 9:44 am
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            #10564

            You are her husband,she will not say to you straight up that she will like to enjoy a few men withe you watching,So you have to say to her ok she can start by trying one boy friend,she can bring him home and she will pretend you are not at home ,and you could be in a next room listening or even better have a camra set up so you can look ,if she likes it then she cn have two guys,and if you have no objection with it then you can participate the next time.

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