Being The Better Man

Sometimes, being the bigger man has nothing to do with penis size. Sometimes, it has to do with magnanimity. Magnus means “great” in Latin: a magnate is a great man. Magnanimity is the generous greatness of spirit. When you are being the bigger person, you are behaving with magnanimity.

A magnanimous man is a generous man, thought to have a great soul. I love seeing my wife with other men, and the smile on her face is always my reward. Generosity can go both ways. Sharing your wife with another man or other men can be seen as generous, but the same can be said of the men who have sex with another man’s wife for his entertainment or gratification.

When a close friend of ours had intercourse with my wife minutes before our wedding, he was generous and giving in a way that my wife and I both appreciated. Yes, our friend was much more endowed than I, but that is what my wife and I wanted. I wanted her to have sex with our friend so that I could smell him on her when I took her garter off after the wedding. It was fun because my wife and our friend were late to the wedding. After all, it took longer for him to get off than they expected.

One might ask who the bigger man was because, although I allowed our friend to have sex with my wife just before our wedding, he did something few other men would. Having intercourse with my wife before our wedding was our friend’s gift to us, and it was a gift we have cherished since.

When my wife walked down the staircase with her breasts almost entirely exposed and a big smile on her face, I knew she’d had a good time and was ready to commit the rest of her life to me. We agreed that we’d have an open marriage and that she would continue to have sex with other men, knowing that would make us both happy.

On our wedding night, my wife and I invited seventeen men to join us, and each of them had her a few times. To this day, my wife sees our wedding night as the best time of our entire marriage, and her playtime with our friend before the wedding as a close second. Fortunately, our friend has remained a close friend, and he and my wife have had numerous playtimes together.

Our friend isn’t around a lot because he travels often, and when we know he’s going to be in town, I refrain from having sex with my wife so that she is fresh and ready for him. I will shave her legs and her vaginal area a few days before he arrives, and he is always appreciative, and my wife says that going without and then having him makes sex with him better.

I don’t believe I can ever fully repay our friend for what he did for me on our wedding day. I think that when my wife and I married and she said, “I do,” she was saying, “I do,” to both of us. I believe my wife is just as magnanimous as I am because she has always said she will be there for him whenever he needs her.

To this day, my wife and our friend talk daily, and she misses him when he’s away. Whenever our friend texts or calls, it puts a smile on my wife’s face. And when he says he’s going to be in town, my wife always gets excited, which I appreciate. I feel blessed that we have a friend who wants to be with my wife as much as she wants to be with him.

Our friend consistently reminds me of what it means to have a generous soul. Whenever he is in town, the first thing our friend wants to do is have sex with my wife. And that means the world to my wife and me. When my wife has sex with our friend, we are reminded of the good things we have in our lives and what true friendship means.