Can A Wife Have Too Many Lovers?

Many women into cuckolding have several lovers they see from time to time, and often several at a time. My wife and I host gang bangs as often as we can because they’re fun, but when a wife has too many lovers, it can become a lot to deal with.

Those who have participated in gang bangs know they’re a lot of fun. Yet, gang bangs aren’t usually the problem. The problem is that there are a lot of men out there and only so much time in a day. Many in the cuckold lifestyle have more trouble finding and keeping men who want to have sex with the wife than having too many men wanting sex too often.

One pitfall of the cuckolding lifestyle is that many men say they want sex, but few are willing to commit or even show up. When Craigslist had personals, these men were referred to as flakes. And when a wife is expecting to have sex with another man or other men, and they don’t show, that can be humiliating and depressing.

When a wife has several lovers who are all available most of the time, that can become a problem, not sexually, but time-wise. When you want men to have sex with your wife, and she wants them to have sex with her, you have to schedule time for all the men. And hopefully, they’re into gang bangs because that makes things a lot easier.

Cuckold couples not only have to be master communicators, but they also have to be very good at time management. Cuckold couples are like anyone else; they have lives, bills, jobs, and families. Sex is not their biggest concern. Although it is how they have the most fun.

There is nothing wrong with a wife having numerous lovers or having sex with multiple men simultaneously. The problem is that too many people lack time management skills or the creative nature to make sex with multiple partners work. Another issue some people have is when a wife has sex with too many partners, or one partner who is a one-man gang bang. The wife may not want or be able to have sex, enjoyably, with her spouse or significant other afterward, possibly for days.

Even when a wife has only one lover, he can change how often the husband and wife have sex with each other, either through making the wife too sore or by becoming her Dom. Some cuckolds want their wives to have several lovers so that she doesn’t become emotionally attached to any of them. Yet, other cuckolds want their wives to have an emotional connection to their lovers. Both have their ups and downs.

Sometimes the line between cuckolding and polyamory blurs, and the wife will have emotions and feelings for her lover(s). This is often the case when the wife has sex with the same man or men regularly. For some cuckolds, their wives having feelings for another man is too much. That is why cuckolding is not for everyone. Cuckolding can be enjoyable, but it also has its risks and pitfalls. Even a gang bang can be too much for a wife if too many men are involved. My wife says eight is the magic number.

My wife has several lovers, but she also has boyfriends —men with whom she has romantic feelings. And I appreciate that. I like knowing that there are certain men my wife enjoys more often than others. We are a cuckold couple, but we are also poly. That being the case, my wife doesn’t just have sex with other men; she makes love to them, and they make love to her. To many men, it may only be sex, but to me and my wife, it is her loving them and us loving each other.

I believe most cuckolds want their wives to have numerous lovers. That is what cuckolding is all about, but it has to mean something to the husband and the wife. And if the wife having sex with other men is important to the couple, they will make time for her to have sex with other men. The way to do that is to decide what is truly important to you and make it your priority.