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    • needburr
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        December 30, 2025 at 2:30 pm
        Post count: 2
        #106534

        My wife cheated behind my back by having a GB with a bull and some of his friends. I found out later. Should I trust her or get off knowing she’s a real slut. I’m conflicted.

      • TK
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          December 31, 2025 at 12:16 am
          Post count: 16
          #106540

          I’m sorry this happened to you. Cheating is not a good way to enter this lifestyle.

        • HubbyJohn
          Participant
            January 4, 2026 at 7:56 am
            Post count: 4
            #106882

            My way into this was her cheating. But differently. I found out 8 years into our marriage that she fucked another man behind my back the entire time we were engaged. She stopped once we were married and we were happy. As she confessed I got more aroused than I ever had been in the past.

            Later on when I expressed how confused and hurt I was she brushed it off due to the time that had gone by and my initial reaction. It became regular role play until we eventually acted on it again.
            I’m not wondering how much of this fetish is a defense mechanism for myself. It’s all I masturbate to. She and I have almost no sex life anymore, but are happy otherwise.

            I’m very conflicted about it all suddenly and feel emasculated and like I need someone to talk to.
            Being cheated on is a way in, but be careful and take care of yourself.

            • Cathy & Jerry
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                January 9, 2026 at 10:36 am
                Post count: 269
                #106915

                Jerry here. I was cheated on and I’m thankful that she did it, because it made me realize the truth that I was not “lover” material. I also discovered that when I thought about my lovely wife giving herself to a “real” man, I was very excited, which of course confused me. After telling her that I knew and asked her to keep seeing him, I learned just what my true place was and I’ve embraced that “place” ever since, and that was 17 years ago. If she hadn’t cheated on me I wouldn’t be a cuckold now and I’m pretty sure that eventually we would have parted ways because of my lack of sexual abilities. Cathy is a VERY sexual being and I was killing that part of her, so now she’s very happy, I’m happy and her lover is happy – It’s a win/win/win for everyone.

                • Hiddenfreek17
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                    January 13, 2026 at 9:35 am
                    Post count: 11
                    #107426

                    Wish I had a wife like that

                  • Cathy & Jerry
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                      January 14, 2026 at 9:43 am
                      Post count: 269
                      #107574

                      Maybe some day you will, don’t give up.

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