Cuckold Marriage Reassurances – We beg your time to give us feedback please

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Joe gives Lola his assurance to the following:

Sexual contact between Joe and Lola will only be at the invitation of Lola. Full sex is not possible due to Joe’s soft small dick and so will never be something he will enjoy with her or any other person
Lola’s pleasure will be his sole focus, his own pleasure will be the frustrating knowledge of Lola’s maximum pleasure with her lover/boyfriend.
He will always support her right to have complete sexual freedom. He will not have this same freedom and this is gladly acknowledged
He promises to encourage and help in any way he can to facilitate meets with lover/boyfriends
Joe will encourage Lola to have a more developed arrangement with whoever she has stronger feelings for, enabling her to create a closer bond in and out of the bedroom. Social dates etc or meeting for dinner should be a part of this
Lola will select her own lover/boyfriends, even if Joe does not approve of her choice and that may include anyone from her past that he may dislike; it is not his decision, only hers. He will be allowed to suggest, but this does not mean Lola has to follow up on his suggestion
He gives up any rights to see Lola’s naked body, unless invited to do so. If needed, he will knock and ask to enter the marital bedroom/ensuite, if Lola wants him to.
He will remain in orgasm denial until Lola allows him relief and only if Lola has had proper sex herself from a lover/boyfriend. Relief for Joe will only ever be in the form of masturbation that he does himself and should not expect Lola to touch him during this time
Lola can meet alone with her lover/boyfriend and this can be anywhere Lola chooses, including the marital bed. If meeting at home, Joe promises to be out whilst this happens, with no time constraints
Joe will gladly get Lola ready for her date, but should be teased and humiliated by Lola at that time. This gives him a lot of deepdowm emotional connection to Lola and keeps him involved as her husband
Joe will also drive her to dates and collect her afterwards, but only if it is required
The only information Joe will be told when Lola meets a lover/boyfriend is when and where, as well as when he arrives and leaves. No other details need to be shared, though Lola should always tease him with bits of information to keep him frustrated.
Lola may spend as much time with her lover/boyfriend as Lola pleases. This includes overnight and weekends away. No updates or pictures/videos should be expected, though are very much wished for by Joe. Joe will accept willingly if a lover/boyfriend turns into a boyfriend for her and will always put their time together above anything else. But if Joe is pushing for information, this may result in a prolonged denial of orgasm for him
Joe should be reminded of his place when Lola has a lover/boyfriend/boyfriend and she is free to tell anyone she likes the truth about why she needs to have a real man outside her marriage; namely his soft, tiny dick
When Lola is meeting with a lover/boyfriend/boyfriend, Joe should wear tight panties that will constrict his ability to play with himself
safe word to end things or discuss is: Black Guy

The Lola agrees to the following

Lola will only allow access/sight of her incredibly hot body to Joe as Lola sees fit, but this is her decision
Lola has complete sexual freedom and this includes the development of a boyfriend relationship, which is Lola’s preference
Lola will have the freedom to have unprotected sex with her lover/boyfriend
Lola is not required to have full sex with Joe
Lola will try harder to give Joe the tease, denial and humiliation he craves from her and will encouage lovers/boyfriends to do the same
Lola will control his orgasm and this can be for any period of time Lola chooses
Lola can demand foot massages from Joe but without him expecting any reward for this
Lola can tease and deny him at any time
Lola may grant Joe a cleanup after a date, but this should not be expected
Lola will share things about a date without fear of any jealousy from Joe, including swallowing cum and other things that she would do or never or indeed be able to do with Joe, due to his limitations
Lola chooses who, when and where Lola meets a lover/boyfriend and for how long
Lola will give Joe access to her body on his birthday and christmas for two minutes and this will be timed
Lola may decide to tease Joe with details of the meeting during or after it happens, but this is purely at her discretion. This maybe pictures, videos, live chat or video call, or could be just an update after the event
Punishments may be given by Lola if she feels Joe is not following this
safe word to end things or discuss is: Black Guy