Hi all bros and sis, Lance here. We are a chinese married couple in our 40s. Been sharing my wife to a few trusted friends, and lately, particularly more to Kevin.
Kevin dominates her pretty well and she seems to be very willing with him. I had this weird idea of allowing Kevin to pimp her off (not because we needed the money, but just for that adrenaline rush, for that weird fetish perhaps)
Do you guys deem this as appropriate? or totally unacceptable?
Ask Kevin of he would like to turn her out. Let it be his idea and he can lead her. If and when she mentions it to you just let her know you will love her and support her decision if she choose to become more slutty.
It is very understandable for her to be concerned about her safety. Maybe Kevin can be present when he offers your wife to others. STDs are a concern, too.
But it is a fantastic fantasy. I hope you’re able to make it pick him a safe reality.
Does she enjoy being dominated by Kevin? Does she feel safe with him?
How did that relationship start?
Yes, Kevin will be present throughout the sessions (if i’m not around). He promised to watch over her safety. He actually has a few buddies in mind, and they dont mind to go for regular check ups prior to the meetups.
If Kevin hand selects her clients she will be safe, since the clients will know Kevin will exact revenge for any damage to her. He can control the location where she meets and services them too. It’s not like streetwalking and going with anonymous clients. He can collect the money ahead of time too so she doesn’t have to handle that.
Yes, we’ve discussed on this topic for quite a long time, as we are really unsure of the way ahead, should we proceed to try, or should we just forget about the idea totally? Would it damage/ruin our marriage etc?
He offered to guide her and arrange for all the meetups, with introductions and chats and meals perhaps. It is definitely not streetwalking, as she doesnt feel comfortable with random guys off the streets.
With her safety assured, the rest is a matter of her desire and willingness. Only you two can decide if it will damage your marriage; I have known marriages that were much enhanced by the wife going pro. She already has the experience of being shared with several men and that seems not to have stressed your marriage at all; no reason why going pro should either.
Perhaps keeping it minimal and slow. See how things go along. Sounds like not too bad since you’ve known some couples that didnt effect their marriage.
Sounds like you are keen on her becoming a sex worker. What is her level of interest? Reluctant? Interested but wants her safety assured? Eager w safety concerns? I’d think an eager sex worker could command a premium.
We are just exploring other possibilities to spice things up for a decade long marriage. Always looking out for new ideas, and this came along when Kevin proposed to us to try. She is just concerned about safety.
meeting strangers is the risky part. if he is arranging and will be near ? then safety ought to be assured. Assuming we trust Kevin? it can add a touch of nortiness and erotic side to a relationship. Not all men want wives pimped but there are others whom not only seek this but having a wife bred too! no real rights or wrongs when agreeing adults have gaols or desires they want to explore. we might want to try in a limited way first. one off ? sounds as though she will be in effect an ‘escort’. so gets benefits they do and of course a bit of pay too! though pimps do often get lions share of course.
staying safe is main thing. being erotic .norty etc is part of the attraction. as long as all parties are comfortable with arrangements then it is a win win situation. good luck.
My wife an I did a role play for a while where I would line men up and charge them a dollar to fuck her, so she could fantasize about being a whore, but this was fun for us both and not really serious. I suggested a quarter so she could be a two bit whore. 🙂