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    • sidsbf
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        for context, this happened a few months ago. me and my gf have been long distance for a while, then and now. intimacy gets tough especially with my kinks, but we did what we could to make it work. one of those things was my gf camming online, with other men, while i watched.

        we did this for a few months, then stopped as she got a bit bored. towards the end, without realizing, one of the guys she cammed with turned out to be a guy we both knew from school, who we hadn’t thought of in years. i used to be somewhat friendly with him, we went to the gym together, parties, etc. he was much bigger than me so after a while he got cocky, pushed me around a bit. i cut him off around then. didn’t think it’d be possible, but with the pool of men that fit her requirement (white, big, time zone, etc.), it actually isn’t terribly unlikely, especially since i know the guy and his interests.

        we’ll call him Y, and my gf S. so S was camming as usual, and Y joined the room. nobody thought much of it, my gf keeps her face out of the frame, Y did as well. she complimented him on his body etc. and they got started. she did the usual, stripping and giving him a show. he told her to reposition, but that’s when her face got in the frame, but she didn’t realize for a few seconds. this was enough for Y to recognize my gf. he came pretty fast after that, and we ended the session.

        admittedly, she had a glow up since school, but her boobs, exotic brown skin, and especially her green eyes make her hard to miss. at this point, neither of us knew the guy on the other end was Y. a few days later he texts me, asking if i’m still dating S. i say yea, and he told me he has bad news for me, and that he saw her online like this, and sent a photo of their cam session. i panicked, i couldn’t let S know since she’d freak out too. thankfully, Y still is a perv but he wasn’t the asshole he used to be, he was actually looking out for me.

        anyways, then we got to talking abt her, and how he wanted to see her again. so at the next session, i added him to the room. my gf still didn’t know, and this time he took his time, really enjoyed her, even asked her to wrap a sari cloth around her to make her look even more exotic. this happened maybe 2 more times, before we stopped camming. my gf was also impressed by him (size, dirty talk, taboo race stuff, etc.)

        to this day, my gf doesn’t know this, and me and Y still chat occasionally. for her future in person adventures, i’m genuinely considering Y as a good match for her. i think he’s a good realistic bull that’ll fit her needs and more. what do you guys think?

      • Luvr
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          @sidsbf What stands out most to me is you’ve not shared this with her and kept it from her to this day. This speaks to either doubts for yourself, doubts about her reaction (bad or really excited both apply). If you had told her and you two had already talked about it, it would be a lot easier to make a healthy recommendation, so my recommendation is that you talk to her about it.

        • sidsbf
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            I should update, since making the post, i have talked to her about it. she got really shy at first but the more i mentioned it, the more she accepted she cammed with Y and liked him.

            so far so good, next is setting up their meet.

          • Cathy & Jerry
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              As Luvr has mentioned, don’t keep this from her or it could end up biting you in the ass (not in a good way lol). ALWAYS be honest and upfront with your wife, let her know what happened and that he is being very decent about it. After she’s had a bit of time to think about it, she just might want to see him. Don’t forget that this is about her, so as long as you’re always honest and forthright with her she’ll know that she can trust you 100%.

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