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    • #33303
      Voyeurcuck

        I’ve always wondered how real DOMs or Bulls see cuckolds? Is the cuck an important role that contributes to the sexual pleasure for the Dom/Bull or is it just a necessary evil of fucking a married woman?

        I know it’s not black&white, and in some cases the Bull/Dom doesn’t even meet the cuck. In such cases I presume the cuck is playing a minor or no role for the dominant male?

        But how about the cases where they all three meet? Eventually where the cuck watches or even serves/help? Or – like in our cases – where the cuckolding is less a part of the game and more like an “unbalanced threesome” where the stranger and my wife is having most of the focus/sex. And humiliation of me is more in the setup and the way my wife enjoys the stranger than in panties, cages or verbal humiliation?

        Do Dom/Bulls respect cuckolds in a way or are they always just patetic beta males in the eyes of a Dom/Bull

        What’s the turn on and turn offs for Dom/Bulls in regards to cucks?

      • #33304
        Anonymous

          An understanding Bull will know that it is both their needs that he is supposed to satisfy. If he is unable to look after her needs he needs to see her being looked after and over time to get more involved and to learn that sexual pleasure for him is something other than penetration. He will get pleasure from fluffing, seeing her penetrated, seeing her lover cum inside her, cleaning up both and also orally pleasuring her lover and swallowing for her pleasure.

        • #33318
          Say_Oy

            Define “Real Dom”, “Real Bull”, “Real Cuck”.
            All of the actions and views will vary depending on the people and what they agree to. The agreement is either by specifying the “rules” directly or by doing so indirectly through action and acceptance or objection.
            If you don’t know what you want or don’t care, ask your wife. If you want something, tell her. If she refuses to consider what you want, you have a problem. If you want a Bull that respects you then demand respect. If you want to be humiliated by him then say so.
            I personally don’t view the cuck as pathetic, I just accept that he will either help serve our desire or that he will stay out of the way as long as no harm is done.

          • #33319
            Voyeurcuck

              Thanks for your feedback, nice to hear from you both. I know “real” is a kind of cliche, and I use the therm more to describe people who see themselves as “read” in a specific role.

              In my own experience, I’ve always been “equal” to my wife’s lovers and no humiliating has been requested or given. But still I feel a kind of “silent” humiliation in the fact another man fucks my wife and she openly express how good it feels. And in our first meeting even said to the lover he had the biggest and most sexy cock she’d ever seen.

              I had the impression this praise from my wife made her lover even more potent and he did even more to please her. And it was a kind of kick for him to be named bigger and better than me, which I could easily understand.

              In other setups described here, the cuckold is almost entireley absent. So do such cases where the cuck and the Bull/Dom hardly meet give any kick to the Dom at all? What’s the difference between such setup and meeting a cheating wife? Or a friend with benefits?

            • #33322
              Anonymous

                I think you are right. Praise for the Bull to the Cuck is good and does make the Bull even bigger and harder. I recall a wife telling her cuck to take my cock in his mouth and feel how big and strong in was and to feel how it pulsed. My cock just got rock hard and throbbed in his mouth. Later I gave him the last couple of spurts direct and he lapped it up making Mmmmmmm sounds. His involvement always made me harder and cum stronger.

              • #33323
                Voyeurcuck

                  Hello Geoff, sounds very sexy. I’ve never tried so direct physical interaction with a Bill but my wife has suggested me to lick her pussy next time she will be with a Bull. This could be her secret clue to bring me into a more active submissive role? I’ve noticed she really gets turned on showing off with a Bull and let me know how good he is

                  • #33335
                    Anonymous

                      Hi Voyercuck. It could be her secret clue to get you into a more submissive role but I think she, like a lot of other wives is looking to try out the pleasures of being cleaned by you after she has been filled up by her lover. All the women that get this service say that it is just so good and nothing beats it. They say that being cleaned like this is even better than having the Bull deposit it.

                      • #33336
                        Voyeurcuck

                          Hi Geoff
                          Cleaning her is something we talk about too. Initially she didn’t want me to clean her after I cum in her but now she likes it. And cums almost instantly if I tell her it’s a Bulls sperm I lick

                        • #33369
                          Anonymous

                            Yes- That clearly indicates that what she really wants and what really turns her on is having you clean up her Bulls seed from both her filled pussy and his cock after she has shown you how she fucks and takes his load from him.

                      • #33328
                        Luvr

                          Someone who considers, let alone treats any submissive, husband or not, without due respect, has no place in this lifestyle. One can humble and ensure a submissive can express their role while also respecting them for the role. Without that side of the coin, the other cannot exist either.

                          Simply said: being an asshole is just being an asshole – it’s not being ‘dominant’.

                        • #33334
                          Voyeurcuck

                            Thanks Luvr well said
                            The few guys we have played with have all been “gentle” in their way of leading us and never forced us to something we didn’t want.

                            It’s my duty to find Men for my wife and I have found quite a few candidates claiming the were Dom’s but when I investigated a bit deeper they just wanted to get me lucked away and fuck my wife. None of them made it through the initial phase of course

                          • #33357
                            Mistress C

                              All I can speak for is how me and my husband approach it. I am a Domme and he is submissive to me and me only, not to the bull., however he will serve the bull however I direct. We have ground rules so its always and enjoyable experience and no anxiety.
                              Now 99% of the men out there really have no idea how to work with this fetish, they just look at it as, excuse my french, “a free piece of ass” So I avoid these types totally. They also have to understand they do not control me or the scene..I do.
                              I also do not just jump into things quickly, I like to establish some chemistry with the bull so we all have a rapport with him to create a comfort level for all.
                              My husband serves how I direct, whether it be at my feet while I flirt and make out with the bull, or at the side of the bed, or outside the bedroom door bound, or in a corner hooded, bound, and in chastity or just c&B bound up with a leash on it that I tug as I enjoy myself. So many ways, these are just a few examples.
                              His job is to refresh drinks, bring snacks, provide a warm wash cloth during play to freshen both me and the bull, and he also is to wash the bulls cock & balls after play. I also have him lick me clean after play (I do not do bareback).
                              But the real fun starts after the bull leaves, and I then discipline my sub if his performance wasn’t up to snuff, and do extensive cbt on him that leaves him so sore he couldn’t even cum if I allowed him to. He is never allowed access to me 3 days before and 3 days after play….and I love the torment
                              But back to the question..the bull has to understand my husband will always be present

                            • #33665
                              beta_hubby30

                                Even always being treated with respect, my impression is that Bulls feels superior than us cuckolds, it’s some type of “silent humiliation” as voyeurcuck has said. I think it’s natural and perfectly acceptable. They are fucking our wives, they are getting pleased, they are in a position a lot of men would like to be. I don’t know about Bulls who would like to be cuckolds.
                                Despite seeing us cuckold as inferior men, it doesn’t mean they can disrespect us. Also, respecting us doesn’t mean they all enjoy everything about having the cuckold there. I think a cuckold-Bull relation is like a boss-employee relation – it has to be respectful, some distance is natural and both should have their needs fulfilled.
                                Some men are just interested in fucking the wife, some men like to tease the cuckold. As long everything goes respectfuly and everbody is ok about what is going on, there’s no problem.

                              • #37488
                                funcouple

                                  Nice Mistress C

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