Interesting post.
We are a late 30’s cpl from W Yorks. Experienced in swinging, but I have only just confessed my wish to “see her with another guy”. Something she has said she is not discounting, but at the same time not too keen on actively persuing.
I take this as her being interested, but worrying that I am serious about this, and how her admitting her interest will effact my feelings towards her.
It seems that we are at a stalemate, and I wondered if you had exrience of working around this ?