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Daman
Hi all, after years of talking about wanting to see my wife with another man and facing only cold responses, we’ve recently had significant breakthrough. I believe my wife has finally got the message that I won’t judge, shame her or leave her for having feelings for or being with another man and that cuckolding won’t automatically mean the end of our marriage.
She is now actively engaging in fantasy talk during sex and telling me what she wants other men to do to her. She has also said she’s going to fuck other men but as of yet, there’s no commitment to start the process.
Given our background of years of being very cold to the whole thing, I don’t want to push her too hard too fast. The problem is I don’t know where to start. What’s the best way to progress from talking about it in the bedroom to actual physical things happening. Please note, we have a young son and aren’t massively social so it’s not like we are in clubs and bars every other week where there would be opportunity to flirt, etc.
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Jim 831
What about a mutual friend that you may have? You could talk to him and it might be easier on her because she already knows him.
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Daphnis72
I sympathise with your problem, @Daman. For me, part of the problem is that we have no friends with whom I would be all that interested in her hooking up. They’re mostly not her type, or we don’t have the sort of relationship in which flirting would be even close to appropriate. Yet, if I even think about “setting it up” with a new person, my wife would feel manipulated into it as opposed to it happening naturally.
I suppose ideally, I should find some good looking guy to befriend, start bringing him around, and letting things go from there.
The question is: how on earth does a guy simply find a new, good-looking friend with a long-term view of the guy hooking up with his wife?!?
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Stacy Beaumont
Buy her a 3 month subscription to seeking.com
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Thehusband
Husband finding a man for wife isn’t easy and prudent. Any woman knows find a man whenever she wants. In real life is the best way to find a lover. In my opinion the wife just needs the support of her husband, affection and feels safe in marriage. So, MOVING BEYOND TALKING is to tell the wife, out of bedroom, the marriage needs another man.
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slaveofwife
I am also in a similar position. I would do anything and have done so if she would agree to this. Maybe she can’t see the benefits just yet or fear of being judged etc.
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Daman
Jim 831
Daphnis72
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Thehusband
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