New to the Lifestyle

Hello everyone, I joined this forum about a month back and it helped me a lot with the articles during my conflicted phase of my life.
Me and my wife,we got married about few years ago and we were having a normal lifestyle or that’s what i thought, until recently. We used to have a routine sex life and used to have it at least once or twice a week.

Recently, when I was looking for a phone number of a relative in my wife’s phone, i came across a bunch of whats-app messages from her colleague at work all of them in sexual nature, scrolling up and reading further i realized that they were sending each other pictures and videos of each other and most of them were deleted from the phone but remained as blurred images. Based on the recent text i realized that they were discussing about the session they had the same day after office hours. I pulled out some images from her google photos account and realized that she has been texting him her nudes for a quite a while now.

Anger and cheated by my own wife, i confronted her, she was hesitant to accept any accusations and later started to be angry at me for checking her phone without my permission, this even after i caught her red handed. Any i moved out of the house and stayed with a friend for the next few weeks. During the period i was away from her, i was always fantasizing that she is continuing her affair, even when i was angry at her. This was the most toughest phase of my life, to let go of my ego and accept my true feelings, I came across a new terms such “Cuckold”, “Hotwife” “Bull”. I appreciate the mods who have put effort to build up such a site and so much information regrading the topic. Chatting with a some fellow members also was helpful.

Well I finally summed up the courage to meet my wife and discuss the issues. Well i realized that she had this affair with the colleague even before my marriage, and post marriage, she could attain the same sexual satisfaction and this is what she said, during a weak moment, she started to continue the affair with him. I don’t know exactly what she meant by the weak moment was but it was hot. She was shocked to hear my response but accepted and in further discussion we got her colleague involved. He agreed to it straight away.

So its been a few weeks now, she meets him regularly, on all workdays if possible. She is in birth control, so they have the full permission to bareback and i get to clean them up when she comes home. Weekends she spends time with me, but I am denied vaginal sex for the time begin. She was not comfortable that I was in the same room, so for time being she asked me to slowly ease into it, last week they had taken some pics to which she jerked me off. So i hope slowly i will get to watch them too. I have asked her to meet other men, which she has not agreed, i do no want her to get attached to the colleague, which she already is and somehow have to get him out of the picture.

This is as far as my entry into cuckold lifestyle is concerned, now it will be helpful to hear all your suggestion and tips on how to further enhance it and wean her off the current partner who she is fucking for more than 3-4 years now.