Some Reasons Why She Says ‘No’ To Cuckoldry

There are many reasons why your wife will not become sexually active outside of your marriage.

She may not be comfortable with other men viewing her in nudity. Some women are self-conscience with baring themselves in front of their own husbands, let alone, other men.

Allowing her nudity to cause another man to become aroused and erect may cause her great embarrassment. 

She may fear that cuckoldry will interfere with her everyday life.

She may fear that cuckoldry will interfere with the stability of her own marriage.

Even though her partners may use protection, the possibility of pregnancy still lingers. She may not be interested in producing anymore children.

Especially for women with children, she may fear the damage cuckoldry may cause her reputation if anyone else were to find out. She may fear the stigma of being labeled a ‘slut’ or a ‘loose’ woman.

She may fear that she will expose the privacy and inadequacies of her marriage to others. She may wish to protect the reputation of her marriage.

Although she realises that there may be better or more deserving male partners beyond her marriage, she may feel that non marital sex may violate one of the main core value of her marriage. Thus, she represses her ‘real’ urges of her sexuality.

These are just some of the reasons why your wife may not want to go beyond her marriage to relieve her personal frustrations.

On the surface, she may be saying that all of her needs are being met within the marriage, (and she maybe saying this to her closest girlfriends), but in reality she is repressing those needs and she finds it uncomfortable to discuss them with you. You may be satisfying none of her needs, but because of social conformity, she represses her needs. She may not have learnt that it may be easier to discuss them with others outside the marriage.

Only when she is able to discuss those needs and feels that there are no threats to her household and marriage, she will give cuckoldry much more consideration.

Sex is a major issue that should be openly discusses objectively between married people. When this can occur, a couple can evolve and make the necessary adjustments to solidify thier marriage. Unfortunately, too many couple believe that their is only one model to marriage, when there are many to try.

Unfortunately, I speak from experience. My wife and I had never discussed sex openly. We always pushed the subject into the dark corner where we thought it should stay. Over the years, our sexual frequency diminished to very few times per year.

After being together for many years, she realised that our marriage was leaving her sexually unfulfilled. I didn’t know apart from the dimished sexual frequency.

She began a discreet sexual relationship with one of her work collegues. Not knowing why, there was a change in her. She changed the way she dressed for work. She was happier. Her skin was glowing. She was more patient with our child and with me but she was returning home later and later. She was cheating.

I put all the pieces together and then, I confronted her and it all came out.

After the emotional impact that this confession had upon our marriage, I took this opportunity to let her know that I accept that I could not satisfy all her needs, and that I will support her if she needed to go outside our marriage to help our marriage.

By taking all the shame and guilt out of her extra-marital sex, she completely opened up to me and I to her.

With all the barriers fallen, we reconnected on a deep level, deeper than ever before. Our sexual frequency escalated and I began to learn the little secrets of her sexual relationship with her boss which fuelled our sex for that time.

We began to use this platform to develop our new foundation for our cuck marriage and we now openly discuss sex. It has been a positive experience. I no longer feel threatened knowing that she desires another partner in bed and she no longer fears that her desires will threaten the stability of our partnership.

Sooner or later, she will begin coupling with other partners and I will fulfill a supportive role for her and the men she couples with. Somehow, this gaurantees that my wedding ring never leaves her finger.

It’s funny how marriage turns out, but it is a journey that Emma and I share together.

Despite our recent experiences, Emma’s beauty has increased ten fold since our revelation. On the surface, she seems conservative and a professional woman, for which she is. No one would picture her to have such extra marital desires. Since the birth of our child, she has cut her blonde hair to shoulder length that frames her pretty face. She is slim built. Her bossums aren’t large (about a handful per breast) but her bottom has rounded out nicely. She has strong thighs from all the running she does. But upon spreading her lovely pale thighs, you will see that she maintains a lovely trimmed bush. She is open minded and is a caring mother and wife.

I am lucky..

Please use my experience to help your own marriages..