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Anonymous
March 4, 2013 at 3:35 amPost count: 2Hi
We are a couple who are taking the first step into the hotwife lifestyle.
Therefore we are looking for a symbol for the hotwife to wear, for example a necklace when she is going out for the first time.
We know all the typical cuckold/hotwife symbols but are looking for somethings special.
We have heard that some cuckold send their hotwife out with a note which state that she is allowed the fuck other men. Any good idea of a exciting text for such a document?
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blueopals
March 4, 2013 at 8:28 amPost count: 12My understanding of fashion is that when a woman wears a T shirt (probably a design type) she is advertising for sex. I read that in a fashion book. Though frowned upon in some circles, gold anklets are also a symbol which advertises sex. Women have a huge arsenal of clothes at their disposal so I don’t think it world be hard to send subtle messages at all.
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Luvr
KeymasterMarch 5, 2013 at 7:52 amPost count: 288If you want something special, i.e., something not commonly thought of, then you’ll not be using the symbol appropriately since only you two will know what it means. The whole idea of wearing something publicly to declare her sexual availability is that men recognize it for what it is and understand that her anklet with the H W charms means hotwife and trumps the wedding ring she also wears. Simply wearing an anklet without charms, for example, is safe, but says very little since for many women, an anklet is simply an anklet and has no other meaning. If she’s planning on a necklace, I would still recommend the charms be added to it. I would also recommend that the chain be longer and that she make a commitment to not hiding the chain when worn.
Of far more importance than jewelry worn is the rest of her outfit. Adhering to the hotwife dress-code is important not only for expressing a hotwife’s sexual availability to other men, but also to express that to her husband and herself as part of the mental and emotional changes that come with expanding the marriage in this way.
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Luvr
KeymasterMarch 5, 2013 at 8:45 amPost count: 288@Luvr said:
If you want something special, i.e., something not commonly thought of, then you’ll not be using the symbol appropriately since only you two will know what it means. The whole idea of wearing something publicly to declare her sexual availability is that men recognize it for what it is and understand that her anklet with the H W charms means hotwife and trumps the wedding ring she also wears. Simply wearing an anklet without charms, for example, is safe, but says very little since for many women, an anklet is simply an anklet and has no other meaning. If she’s planning on a necklace, I would still recommend the charms be added to it. I would also recommend that the chain be longer and that she make a commitment to not hiding the chain when worn.Of far more importance than jewelry worn is the rest of her outfit. Adhering to the hotwife dress-code is important not only for expressing a hotwife’s sexual availability to other men, but also to express that to her husband and herself as part of the mental and emotional changes that come with expanding the marriage in this way.
I get your point. So which charms should she wear, beside the HW charm and where to buy them?
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southwestcple
March 6, 2013 at 12:44 amPost count: 18A woman who wears a tshirt is advertising herself for sex!? Are you sure?
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blueopals
March 9, 2013 at 7:05 amPost count: 12South, I read that in a fashion book, a book which covered all aspects of fashion and the history of fashion as well.
Women have a vast array of clothes to try versus men. There are so many combinations. Which I find interesting, because in nature the female is low key and in some cases vistually camouflaged whereas the male, especially with birds, is in full color mode.
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pdx_cuck_cpl
April 30, 2013 at 10:15 amPost count: 5Tee shirts? That sounds more hopeful on the author’s part than factual, unless the tee shirt says “I WANT TO HAVE SEX” on the front. Symbols mean something because society (or segments of them) assigns meaning to them. Sticking with the typical swinger/cuckold/hotwife stuff will broadcast to the “right” people, though it sounds like cuckold.dream is looking for something a little more exclusive.
Why not consider an ad? Find something oddly specific she can wear, like a piece of jewelry. Maybe a necklace with a 4-leaf clover charm (certainly a symbol for “get lucky”). Before you go out, drop an ad in the local Craigslist or similar online site saying, “My hotwife and I are going out at ___ tonight, she wants to find another man. Be respectful in your approach, no means no, yes means yes, and look for the 4 leaf clover.”
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WannaBeCuck
July 4, 2013 at 1:33 pmPost count: 8Wear a chain / necklace with the keys to his chastity device and an anklet everyday. A tee-shirt stating “He is my Cuckold” and your cuckold’s tee-shirt stating “She is Available”. Then of course wearing sheer sexy clothing say’s a thousand words. You must have your man in a chastity device ASAP and if you are bold enough tell others he is your cuckold. That is translated to other people, you are available. Good luck and your man is very lucky to have you. Thank you, Glenn
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hwhub
April 20, 2015 at 8:27 pmPost count: 19My wife and I are a cuckold couple and we don’t have any tattoos and we’ve decided it may be time we did. Her primary bull plans to get some type of bull tat and I’d like one to symbolize my role as her cuck. And she would like something to symbolize her as a hotwife, perhaps on he lower back. We really haven’t found anything we like so we thought maybe someone here had some ideas. She’s worn temporary tattoos on her ankle with the gender symbols but for the real thing we’d like something different. She also has anklets and a necklace with the gender symbols.
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hwhub
April 23, 2015 at 7:10 amPost count: 19My wife has always worn an anklet and sometimes a charm bracelet with the mfm gender symbols when she goes out but she’s never worn anything to overtly announce that she’s a slut or a hotwife. The men that she’s attracted to seem to find her more alluring to be dressed more conservatively but still sexy. At times she’s had a temporary tattoo on her ankle with the mfm gender symbols. She has some t-shirts that say hotwife but she usually wears them at home.
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StokieUKCpl
April 24, 2015 at 2:44 amPost count: 32I agree with Luvr in the fact that a woman who is sexy and dresses sexily will always attract attention. Especially if she is confident and flirty along with it.
My wife and I both have the tattoo below which I actually adapted from the cuckold symbol.
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hwhub
September 1, 2015 at 5:50 amPost count: 19My wife and our dom bull have decided that they want me to get a tattoo to mark me as a cuckold. I did have some input and it looks like I’m getting antlers tattooed to my thigh. Her bull also wants my wife to have the three gender symbols tattooed to her shaved mons pubis. She wears a chain with the key to my cage and sometimes she wears one of her anklets with the gender symbols. Right now we’re looking for a young bull to complement her longtime boyfriend.
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Anonymous
April 3, 2016 at 4:56 amPost count: 34I’m afraid that we go for the obvious – as others have said you can’t beat the anklet with charms and/or tattoos.
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Anonymous
April 10, 2016 at 12:48 amPost count: 9When Rachel cant wear her tank top or Tee “nice restaurant or bar” she wears one of her 2 necklace and anklet, along with black rings, worn on the right hand next to pinkie finger. Black ring just means your swinger or in the lifestyle, helps more guys notice before they come up to you just in case they don’t see the other things. but usually the tee shirt works just fine lol, she has no problems finding someone just finding some that works well with us, its a hard search no punt intended. you can get the rings engraved on the outside or inside hotwife/cuckold. we have ours on the inside because we ware them all the time. And if your into just BBC then the symbols are even more obvious like a q/spade tat. we got our rings at etsy for like $30 i think for both. go to sam’s club or jewelry store and size your finger first.
Everyone life is Different so most important just do what works best for you!
If someone asked us what is the black ring for and we don’t want them to know, like family or V Friend we just tell them is was given to us from a friend that died in Military and that is how we remember him. my not sound nice but it keeps them from asking any further questions. No Disrespect to our Military my wife supports or Troops Very Very Much ;).
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