How a hotwife dresses is an integral part of her role within the lifestyle – in fact, it’s how she dresses and behaves that first identify her and establish her as a hotwife – even before she has begun coupling with males outside the marriage.
To that end, it also matters how a hotwife dresses at home. The best way to think of it is wearing what you wear to bed more often around the house instead of being fully dressed.
This is mainly for your husband’s benefit. I know you’re all used to hearing about what cuckolds are denied, but for every privilege removed, something must take its place and for cuckolds who are denied, the erotic frustration of tease provides emotional bonds important for both the hotwife and her cuckold. This is still an important expression of the hotwife role even for couples where denial hasn’t been part of their experience.
Seeing you dressed, but displayed is sure to remind him of who else has been (or will be) suckling at those nipples. When his eyes wander down your belly and can make note of the neat landing strip (or nothing at all), he’ll be reminded that’s someone else’s preference.
Your husband will be unable to look at you like this and not be reminded of his cuckolding.
In colder climates it’s not always easy to be so minimally dressed. In those places/times I suggest more form fitting sleepwear that may cover more, but conceal very little in the end. The same goes for your husband as we all know that a cuckold should always have his truth detector viewable at home.
Hi Luvr,
Excellent post. We have been a long time admirerer of FMSB and we really like the new format. Well done. Your advice has helped us a great deal over the years.
I was wondering, can you comment on how a Hotwife should dress while with a family (kids) in the home? We have 3 kids and my wife has been dating her lover for over 5 years now and very successfully. I am very interested in hearing your thoughts.
Thanks,
Kirk
The one place your wife should be her most comfortable – is home. There’s no reason your wife can’t dress as described at home. If this is a huge departure from her usual, then it should be introduced a bit more slowly, but I’ve known many couples who raised their kids in a very relaxed environment regarding clothing. In Europe, nudity is so much less an issue – I sometimes forget just how prudish this country can be at times.
Thank you for your reply, Luvr. Your thoughts have just reaffirmed what we have come to beleive.
Eric (my wife’s lover and boyfriend) has gradually taken increasingly more control over my wife’s appearance and dress code. It was gradual and sometimes difficult for her but she is better for it as she has gained an increadible sense of confidence and feels more beautiful now than ever before and that is something we are all very grateful of.
Eric has come to expect my wife to dress sexual and feminine at all times while in the home. This doesn’t mean slutty or trampy, but always in good taste and fashionable. This does mean much more revealing than most others and always an emphasis on her feminine “assets”. This also means more use of bedroom dress outside of the bedroom. This started when our family was younger so they have come to be very used to it and well adjusted to it as a normal, natural thing in our home. It wouldn’t be possible to make that sort of change now as it would be too unusual for them.
My wife loves her appearance. She is in the best shape of her life and her confidence has exploded and feels more beautiful than ever before (finally feeling as beautiful as she actually is!).
Nudity, for my wife, in our home, has become much less of an issue as it is in most other families. While I know she is dressing for Eric’s needs and wishes, it is still very thrilling to see her beauty and femininty all of the time. Knowing that she is dressed this way for Him is often very humbling for me and is an ongoing reminder of His status, and of my own status.
I would strongly reccommend to all cuckold couples that they practice this as an important part of their lifestyle. It makes it very real for us on a daily basis.
We would be delighted to discuss more about this here in open forum, on the chat room, email or yahoo chat, pending Luvr’s approval.
Thank you for allowing us to share.
I tried the nudity aspect at home and now it’s second nature to me and the kids are used to seeing mums shaved pussy and tits on view
Your openness is wonderful. Nudity is not shameful and it must be known to be natural at a young age. I never had kids but nudity at home should be encouraged. It is better to see and learn safely at home then somewhere that may be troublesome for the kids. I think your kids will grow up more mature and have a better view of life because of your openness. Two thumbs up to you my dear. Thank you, Glenn
As far as hot-wife dress code at home. I think she should dress the less and hottest as possible. It is good to turn your cuckold on and a better way to get courage to dress sexier when in public. I think she should dress this way when his friends visit and when her male friends visit so she can enjoy the effect it has on them and enjoy their compliments. This will give her cuckold more pride. Then she should try topless at home. Then perhaps walk out the bedroom naked and act like she did not realize they had visitors. Walk to the kitchen for a while than walk back to the bedroom turning around to give a last good look and say sorry if I made anyone feel uncomfortable. It should be a big ego boost to her as she will have created so many boners in her honor. She should start going out more sexy as often as she can. The more open minded the woman becomes the happier she will become and the more proud her cuckold will feel. Make it known she is available and her cuckold is proud of this. Do it for each other and for her lovers. Thank you, Glenn