Once again, a study confirms what we already know, but I think the published outcome is still incorrect.

According to a new study by Indiana University’s Kinsey Institute for Research in Sex, Gender and Reproduction, women are much less likely to experience an orgasm during casual sex than when having sex within a committed relationship, UPI reported.

via Women less likely to achieve orgasm during casual sex | Fox News.

It’s not the committed relationship that’s the key, it’s the presence of an emotional bond – the very thing couples new to this experience feel they have to avoid. While such worry is understandable, maintaining an emotional distance between a wife and a man she dates is counterproductive and a false sense of security.

In a forthcoming article I will speak in more detail on that bond, its necessity and how all three participate in managing it to build the marital bond instead of weakening it.