Re: So near, yet so far.

Cuckmatt-Society has carefully scripted social behavior when we were very young.  Girls, though Disney and fantasy romantic castles, charming princes and fairy tales are programed in line with what society expects of them.  The conditioning is very powerful.  Once at a nudist resort someone told me about how powerful the conditoning is but many women did express, after shedding the initial shock of being nude with other people, that they wished they had embraced nudism a lot earlier in life.

Cuckolding is a big step up from nudism and it would take some time for the woman to adjust to a different reality of sexuality.  It may never happen.  Or it may evolve in a closed cuckolding situation which might open up over time.  Stepping back without exerting any pressure is important.  If the wife decides to go closed then it should be accepted-the husband did ask for such a lifestyle-as long as the marriage itself is not threatened.

Social mores are very powerful and our programing started when we were very small.  Society wants a certain behavior from people.  Unfortnunately, all people are different.  Perhaps that’s fortunate!  We all enjoy sex differently.