Re: New to forum, advice needed on confusing cuckold situation

Hello to you “curiously”,

It seems that Uxorious did a fine job “taking a stab”at your situation and I have very little to ad.  Under the circumstances I would say that while cheating and cuckolding do have some similarities, the major issue here is really trust and understanding.  As in you trust your partner and both of you have clear understanding of where your boundaries are if you wanted her to cuckold you.I can only assume that while you told her what your interests are, that you also made it known that decisions were to be made by the both of you in advance of any activity?  Or did you give her free reign to make those decisions for you in the process of her experimenting with what she wanted? To be truly cuckolded would mean that she took the reigns and did things her way without your need for approval either way.  What is it that you are ideally after with her exactly? Is it that you would like to have her sleep with another man but only once the two of you have agreed?  That would kind of take the point of being cuckolded  the wrong way…

The point here ultimately is that you must decide for yourself what cheating is and what form of cuckolding you are truly wishing to experience.  Trust is a key element in deciding whether the relationship can handle this lifestyle, and if you feel she violated yours, then the two of you have a lot to talk about before you can even think about this again.

An interesting aside, if you honestly believe that a “pseudo-relationship”with dates spanning a few years only culminated in a bit of kissing, you may be a bit too naive. This is just my two cents, but to each their own my friend..