Reply To: Lost

Hi wow unfortunately there is no straight answer here you are in the middle of a emotional roller coaster the religious thing dosent help you did the right thing by mention how you are feeling but because of her initial reaction you have some work to do if you truely believe this is something you want for your marriage. The biggest thing to remember is communication and honesty is crucial and a level of trust will need to develop for the walls to come down that your wife currently has up. There is no way of knowing if your efforts will amount to you being cuckolded ever or how long it could take so if you are not committed to doing what it takes dont go there. The advice to you at this stage is to go back to the beginning if you are truly a cuckold your need to see your wife happy fulfilled satisfied etc should be your primary driver not just on a sexual level but an emotional one aswell you need to reconnect with your wife romance her proof to her she is and always will be the only one for you make her feel special build her up as her self confidence grows her insecurities will fade and her trust in your relationship and you will return until this happens you cant even think about anything that you may be wanting. at that point you can slowly proof to her that your ability to be sexually satisfied within your relationship dosent depend on you having intercourse with her start developing ways of getting of together make sure she is getting what she needs sexually and let her see that your need to see her sexually gratified in turn gets you off this will help empower her sexually and hopefully open her up to the idea of doing different or experimenting a bit in the bedroom you wouldn’t want to be even mentioning another man yet but as i said this can be a long journey but a good one and if you succeed the rewards you will experience make it all worth every second the biggest mistake you can make is to rush this and push any agenda to soon it will destroy any possibly of en thing good ever happening and if you believe your wife to be a sexual person when you get her to relax and open up you will succeed good luck