Fucked By Her Boss
Yes, it’s a common fantasy for husbands – and for many wives. It’s not always the boss’s cock that a wife succumbs to at work – sometimes it’s a coworker, but the stereotype of the wife being willfully seduced by her boss exists for a reason.
Following Nature’s Course
As you may have read in other posts here, I believe that our interest in this lifestyle, collectively, is a result of who we really are vs who we are told to be. For at least three or four decades now, the drumbeat of female equality has tried to tell women that they are not just equal to men, but better and that no self-respecting woman ‘gives in’ to a man. This is to say that a woman should never submit to a man.
Bullshit.
Not only is that political correctness bullshit, but it’s simply ignorant of human biology and sociology. Women respond sexually to ‘bad boys’ because at an instinctive level, those behaviors are interpreted as being assertive, dominant. Women respond to that – it’s a trait linked to mate selection among many species, including our own. Following this logic, it’s easy to see why a wife who spends as much or more time around her coworkers and boss would naturally choose her boss as a lover.
[pullquote_left]Author’s Note: this post was partly inspired by e & b mollaie who hopefully, if things went as planned, enjoyed their first evening at home with e’s boss last night.[/pullquote_left] For the cuckold, the arousal (and conflict) comes not only from the idea of the time spent together intimately, but also the time spent together casually. When the cuckold husband of a wife who has selected her boss as a lover gets dressed in the morning, the cuckold consciously knows that her decisions on which skirt to wear, how far to button her blouse and even which panties to wear are likely all relevant to her status as his lover. She may choose shorter skirts, shorter dresses and always wear heels for him. She will wear her lace bras and her fitted blouses left open so that he can enjoy a casual glance at her lace-decorated cleavage.
Not only does he get to enjoy the view, but so does everyone else. All day.
From the boss’s perspective, it’s incredibly erotic to see her style change to suit his tastes and surprisingly, it’s also very erotic for the husband to witness as well. Sometimes simple changes are some of the most effective: instead of the wife wearing the same blouses she always with her skirt suit, she could switch her tops to include bodysuits, camisoles and tank tops. When worn with the jacket, especially buttoned, the looks can be fairly conservative, but with the jacket open, or removed while in her office or at her own cube, the effect can be quite stunning.
Stolen Moments
Then there are the stolen moments: that moment where her boss knows that no one else can see them at that second as he gently squeezes her bottom while passing by. She is certainly not above the same games and will tease him with her thighs or more generous views of her breasts when she knows that he’s the only audience for those few seconds. Few have the privacy at work needed for enjoyable coupling, so outside of stolen moments and blow jobs in the car at lunch, this couple will need a place to release the sexual tension built up over an entire day spent teasing each other. As always, I suggest a split between his place and the couples’ home. I always recommend keeping the cuckold included in as many ways as possible and the boss should always know that your husband is both aware and supportive of her ‘office merger’.
A good hotwife will txt her husband to share those moment and help him experience that with her.
Risk vs Reward
Many would say that the risks of workplace relationships are too many and not worth the chance, but I would suggest carefully analyzing the situation and going into it with a plan if you, as a wife, or as it should be, a couple, have come to realize this is an opportunity for you. Besides enjoying the fantasy with your boss and potential lover, also speak of the realities and gain assurances that should this end, as all things ultimately, do, that each will make a commitment to being an adult and maintaining a professional relationship since to do otherwise would risk the jobs and careers of each of them.
Environmental Factors
The options a workplace couple have often depend on the company culture and the size and relationships within the office. A small company has less secrets, but also has less rigor in terms of policies and policy enforcement. In a larger enterprise where HR would dance on his desk for taking you to the Christmas party as his date, a smaller company’s staff would likely already know by simple observation that there’s something going on. The fact that she’s married is none of their business and though it would be better they know that they date with the husband’s approval, it’s not necessary.
The dress he bought her for their first dinner party together.
As with interracial cuckolding, boss/wife cuckolding includes an additional element of taboo. If the couple can’t publicly date to company events, it would still be very erotic for her boss to have his bit of eye candy for parties, business dinners and even for short business trips. Every husband tries to imagine how they will handle such events, how they will manage the conflict of excitement and dread, but just as the wife doesn’t need another husband, her boss doesn’t want a(nother) wife – he prefers having a girlfriend/sextoy.
Not too good an idea. Too close to home,but having said that I’ve been cuckolded by two wives. You’ld never know it looking at me or either one of them. Having said that, my first wife, Linda, was a sale’s support person for a major public company and she was and is a beautiful woman. One of the better salesman in her office fucked her on a regular basis. He also had sex with other women outside of their office. I also arranged for some of my fellow salesmen in my company to fuck her, which she enjoyed. Unfortunately, I didn’t get to watch as I do now with my second wife, on occasion.
This has a real potential downside for the hotwife’s professional career. The charge “She sleeping her way to the top” is all too often used to describe the career advancement of any woman who’s sexually active at the office irrespective of her professional abilities.
Whether fucking their boss or not, women often benefit from their gender and will get hired and/or receive promotion merely for being attractive and women, being the catty things they are, will always gossip and make accusations whether founded or not.
Women can also be a victim of their gender in certain circumstances and be undervalued or objectified without reward, but i challenge the women themselves as being responsible for how they are perceived and how they leverage their natural advantage.
As I said in the article, this topic is a potential minefield, but that’s also what adds to the appeal. Each couple should evaluate the situation, the environment and see if they can mitigate the risks/downsides before simply dismissing the entire idea. While there are certainly those situations where this sort of relationship is likely to have far more cons than pros, the opposite can also be said.
For the last six months I have been dating not my own boss, but my husband’s!
As you may imagine this works well on sooo many levels!
Kate
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I would feel fine with my woman have sexual partners in the work place. At least we would feel more relaxed with knowing them than strangers. As far as the boss, if it is a common or non executive level job, I say go for it the up-side potential is good. She should dress as sexy looking as possible. I have no problem having her boss and or co-workers drop by for some comfortable at out home sex with my woman. It would feel just as welcomed as her male friends and or my male friends. At least we would have more control with closeness rather than men were don’t know well. Her sexual freedom in her hands and she will know what’s best for her and for me. I would have full respect in any decision she would make. Thank you, Glenn