Hello, we are a mid 50’s couple just getting started in the lifestyle after discussing it for a long time. The female half is excited about the possibilities but has never been with another man and is very nervous. She is looking for an experienced female to chat with and mentor her. If anyone is interested in helping us out please DM us and hopefully we can connect.
Hello. I am Cathy, I have been cuckolding my husband Jerry for over 16 years. I have helped many couples find their way around this fantastic lifestyle and I’d be happy to help you where I can. You can contact me with a private message if you like. Cheers!
Cathy, thank you so much for reaching out. We are still very new at this. I am enjoying it but the whole concept is a little overwhelming at times. I never thought my husband would be open to me exploring my sexuality with other men but I am loving it so far.
Linda
Thank you all. This is still so new and bazaar to me but to be honest I am loving it. I never imagined I could have a great marriage to the man of my dreams and also be able to explore my sexuality with other men with my husbands blessings. I feel like the luckiest woman in the world.
I there’s anything I/we can do to help you two just send us a message. Jerry would also help your husband with any questions he might have. You will wish you had cuckolded your hubby a long time ago lol.
Know this post is 2 months old, but I’m new here. Hotwife for 4 years and happy to talk if you need to. Getting started is exciting but also scary. Good luck.
Be careful who you get advice from within the internet.
What you two need to do is discuss everything. Be open and honest about what you fear, what you want, and what you think the results will be. Do it together as a team effort.
There is little advice that anyone can give you because every couple is different with varied insecurities and struggles. It may seem odd, but no one knows the answers better than you two do.
It may be you are looking for encouragement to help give you confidence to enter the lifestyle officially. To help remove doubts and settle your fears.
One of the easiest and best ways to start this is to forget you are a cuckold couple. Go to a club or a bar, and you the husband pretend to just be her friend. Or better, her gay friend. This way other men will not think she is off limits. Have her meet new people. There is no problem if things don’t go well the first time.
Have her get used to meeting new men and flirting. Exchanging numbers etc. Then just let nature take its course.
Many times the first time happens without the husband being present. The wife needs to regain her sea legs. When she is more comfortable in the atmosphere again, then you take it to the next level.
If she finds a guy that is not looking for a relationship, she can tell him what the story is and if he would be interested. You would be surprised how many men would be willing to fuck your wife with you watching.
The only way to do it is to do it. The fear is part of the excitement like a roller coaster.