Reply To: Intrigued by and learning about this lifestyle …

Thanks for the welcome. I’ve been reading up on the lifestyle A LOT recently. That’s how I found this site.

I ended up divorcing my wife a little over 2 years ago; over the fact that she had a number of affairs while we were married. While she says she’s still in love with me and wants us to be together, I just couldn’t handle all her extramarital “fun”.

However recently, I’ve been exposed more and more to female promiscuity, and instead of being offended by it, I’m finding it extremely arousing. I’ve recently found out that 2 of my close friends are in “open” relationships themselves. My sister’s cheating on her husband, and I’ve managed to hook up with a number of really slutty and promiscuous women since the divorce. In one instance, the lady set up a hook up with another man, whilst on a dinner date with me. All she said that while she won’t sleep with me on the 1st date, she did have needs and so she’d arranged with a FWB to come take care of her. Part of me was furious and humiliated because I was being used by her for a meal. But part of me was extremely aroused. I’ve gotten to the point where I happily watch the kids while my ex-wife goes out to meet her lovers.

I’m even considering getting back together with her.