So near, yet so far.

Thanks for the words of encouragement Luvr. I think one of the 1st things I need to do is to have her take a good look around this website. A hell of a lot of information and advice will be so helpful to her.
Very soon we will be having a weekend away for her birthday and she has told me that for this weekend, she will be swapping hats and being my sub. I will make a concerted effort to bring her all the things that she craves as a sub. Humiliation, CP, tease and denial, some bondage and orgasm control. In previous discussions she has told me that if I should wish to make her my slut/hoar, then she will comply. I will have control of what she wears and how she behaves. I think that this opportunity will present me with the chance to bring in a 3rd party. Perhaps to sate her exhibitionist streak. To be made to perform in front of another man? I know she would be willing to go that far at the least. From there, I should be able to guage just how much further she is willing to go. I will strive to ensure that the voyeur in question is better endowed than myself. In the heat of the scenario, my wife may end up in a position where she actively wants to experience the larger cock and thus, acting in a slut-like manner. I will be in the perfect position then of making a judgement call about how much further down the road of becoming a hotwife she is willing to go.
I think it could be the tipping point for her and us as a couple.

Regards,
Matt.

Just a brief update about our situation.
After receiving my dick only twice in the last 6 weeks as a result of illness and me being locked up, my wife’s level of wanton has reached levels that she hasn’t experienced for many years. This, along with being open with each other about our deepest desires is bringing us to a point where we have a mutual goal almost. That goal being my desire for her to cuckold me and her desire for cock……someone else’s cock too. She actually said that it WILL happen. The circumstances will just have to be right.
With some rather careless (deliberate) internet usage, she stumbled upon some of the various cuckold sites that I’ve been frequenting and hopefully this site. It’s almost like she has been recitation passages from the guides on here. It seems like far too much of a coincidence……or Luvr really does know how women think!
Last night we discussed the reality of cuckolding and some of the what-ifs. What happens when the door has been opened? I went down the line of contextualizing things. For example, that initially she should treat this whole thing as a persuit of sex and nothing more. To think of it as a gift from me to her. To have the freedom of choice. To paraphrase Luvr, to be comfortable with a variety of flavours as apposed to being content with her long-standing favourite flavour.
While our fantasies in the bedroom include her humiliating my dick size (which isn’t pee-wee sized and probably quite average), my wife asked me about my thoughts on my dick. At just over 5 1/2 inches in length I explained the average-ness of it. At that point she inadvertently told me that it was a bit on the slim side, thus letting slip that she would enjoy a more girthy cock, similar if not bigger than one of her favourite dildos’.
The cat is well and truly out of the bag now. Momentum is building and with some luck, soon she will  have the confidence to actively seek the enjoyment of another.
I will update this in the near future about any further progress.

Thanks for your comment matmagic99. Things are progressing very nicely for my wife and I.

I am now only 1 week away from becoming a cuckold. After a near miss over a year ago with a man that both me and my wife met via twitter, next Saturday will finish what the the three of us started. Back then, my wife and I had only really stuck our toes into the cuckold pool. As a result (and it was the right result), the illicit liaison never came to fruition. The circumstances were just not right. Over a year later though, through good communication and a more intensified approach to our fantasy role-play, we are now in the position where my wife has the confidence to go the final mile.

This confidence was also helped by the fact that we stayed in touch with her potential Bull on twitter. As a result of no lines being crossed during our 1st meeting, she has developed the trust in him that is necessary for any Hotwife/Bull relationship and very importantly, my trust also. The 1st meeting was initially going to be a basic 3some but my wife has now made arrangements to meet her Bull alone. She feels that me being there would put too much pressure on her nerves and therefore dull the experience. As a cuckold husband I want her to have an exceptional sexual experience and so I have fully committed my support to her by agreeing to allow her the liberty she needs and SHOULD have.

We have been living the lives of a switch couple for the last 5 years and over the last 12 months we have been in either role for longer and longer periods. We have agreed that after the forthcoming extra marital fun, we will have one week of vanilla sex and then for her birthday weekend at the end of March, I will have a stint of being Dom. As my wife has embraced her time of being my Domme with such commitment, I intend to repay her with the same vigour. I have told her I will be pushing her boundaries to the extreme and have the intention of using all her fetishes including, humiliation, bondage, CP, verbal abuse, control and more. She’s quietly looking forward to it. I cannot go into detail as she might read this post.

To tie things up, I have bought her a dress and some new lingerie for the birthday weekend but I think I should give them to her early and in time for her 1st Hotwife date. What better way of expressing my current submissiveness, than allowing her Bull to have the 1st opportunity of seeing AND removing it from her body. To strip her of the finery that her cuckold husband has bought and then use her as he sees fit. The anticipation is excruciating……in my CB6000!

I hope to relay more in due course.

Thanks for reading.

It was indeed my wife who posted on this thread matmagic99. There has been a twist in this adventure of ours though, I am somewhat sad to report.

On Friday evening, my wife and I were simply watching a show on the TV when I turned to her and noticed that she was visibly upset. When I asked her what could be the matter, she explained that the cuckold fantasy was going to have to remain just that. A fantasy.
Without a doubt, our plans had been moving forward very swiftly over the last week. Too swiftly it seems. My wife had very much been caught up with the whole cuckold concept and she admitted that she became very turned on by the prospect of becoming a hotwife and enjoying the fruits of such a status. But as the time grew nearer to the moment of truth, she was growing increacingly nervous and doubtful about the whole thing. Her doubts were out-weighing her excitement and she called the whole thing off.

Of course my heart sank but then, what kind of a husband would I be if I were to carry on and endeavor to persuade her to carry on against her wishes? Not a good one. Of course I immediately comforted her and gave her my support for her decision.

This site has been so very helpful and extremely insightful to us both. Not only does it cater to the men in this world who wish for their women to sleep with other men but also to the women, going into all aspects, beit positive and negative. I urge everyone who reads this to make sure they read the entire guides laid out on this site by Luvr. Don’t skip any sections that you think may not apply to your situation. They ALL apply potentially.

While I am of course disappointed about me and my wife’s circumstances, we have already found the silver lining to the dark cloud. We have other turn-ons which we will now put more effort into. Anyone with a cuckold fetish will undoubtedly have other fetishes also. Ones that may have lead to cuckolding being THE fetish of choice. If like us, your cuckold dream has to stay a dream, don’t let that spoil your bedroom fun. It doesn’t have to be that way. Just make sure that you communicate often and honestly with your other half. Communication is VITAL in all aspects of cuckolding and any other fetish play. Who knows? Maybe the planets will align in unforseen circumstances? If you have been over this site with a fine toothed comb, you will be better prepared.

Enjoy what you have and communicate, communicate, communicate and then communicate some more.

Thanks for reading.

Matt.

It’s been some time since I last posted on here but as most, if not all of you who are on this site will know, the cuckold path is never a straight forward one. My last post related to how my wife called a halt to our cuckold journey very early on, when everything seemed to moving along very nicely. Over the last couple of months, my wife has had some time to reflect on the situation and has now set the ball rolling again but more on her terms.

Both of us are naturally submissive and over the years we have managed to maintain a “Switch” relationship. Both of us taking turns at being “Top”. Over the last few months it has become apparent to us that the current status quo isn’t sustainable in the long term.

My wife in general life is a much more assertive character than I am and when it comes to our sex lives, out of the two of us, she is the most dominant naturally. While this is good news for me, it means there is quite a hole in my wife’s needs that isn’t getting filled (Pardon the analogy). So my wife has come to understand that she is now in a position to feel more comfortable with the idea of introducing a 3rd party to our marriage. That 3rd party has quite a specific role to play. Primarily a role of dominance over my wife.

It is very early days but she has set about looking for such a man. If a suitable candidate is found, there are going to be limitations to his role…..to start with. To scratch my wife’s sexual itch. From there, other facets to our cuckold marriage may present themselves, such as will the candidate experience my wife’s delights as a one off or will she choose to make it a regular occurrence with her Dominant? There is nothing to say that the 1st candidate will sufficiently satisfy her and so leading her to try several others?

This brings us to the question of Hotwife or Slutwife, the former would be my preference of course. I’m quite sure there is the perfect Dominant out there for her and once she has found him, will a relationship on an emotional level develope? The possibilities are potentially endless.

I am happy for my wife to choose what she will and will help her to make and then support her decisions come-what-may.

For now, I am back in chastity and her sexual requirements are only mounting. My involvement with her sexually is now limited to giving her pleasure by hand, tongue or toy. The longer I am locked up, the less useful I become if she chooses to use my dick to satisfy her which should only reinforce to her her need for a potent bed partner. I know I am stating the obvious but things are already unfolding in the ways described on this site and others. Is the writing on the wall? Time will tell.

Ok, it’s been sometime since I last posted on here so here’s an update on our situation.

After a bit of a lull in our cuckold journey, my wife has picked up the pace again, albeit a sliw pace but as the saying goes, Rome wasn’t built in a day. Her plan is to do things her way which is although not your usual route, one I feel could ultimately lead to the more usual way. Stay with me while I explain.

My wife is not a sociable person as a rule. Something that would put the skids on any plans of enjoying the company (and more) of others. So having spent some time getting to know a Dominant on twitter, plans are afoot to have this dominant as a friend with benefits. The candidate is bit of linchpin in the BDSM scene in our region of the country and has already helped my wife by encouraging her to attend a fetish event or two which she has done. My wife will be having a on-to-one meeting with the guy tomorrow evening in order to discuss details of their needs and to confirm that there is a connection between them. From there, if things go to plan, a “play” meet will be arranged. How has my wife come to this line of thinking? I’ll explain now.

We are both submissive by nature but over the last year, my wife has taken more of a Domme role within our marriage but she still has submissive itches that need scratching. My wife has her own fetishes which I have been unable to oblige her in less and less. Mainly because I am so far out of my comfort zone when attempting to do so. So the FWB can sate her BDSM needs and thus (hopefully) allowing her the ability to concentrate on on dominating me more effectively.

The question of my wife taking the “benefits” to the limit is still unanswered. She knows that she me has my unreserved blessing should she want to indulge in sexual activity with the Dominant but from my standpoint, I can only liken it to a man going to see a Professional Dominatrix for his kicks, although sex is not on the menu in such circumstances, it’s about as intimate as two people can get without being in a relationship together. The contradiction to this is that there will be no money involved.

It’s looking more and more likely that my wife is going to getting rude with another man. Not in a way that I initially hoped for but it’s going to open a door. One that I hope will give my wife the confidence to enjoy others and so making me a true cuckold.

The door to cuckolding is opening up for my wife and I. Last night my wife went on a date of sorts with the dominant mentioned above.

According to wife, after a couple of hours of awkwardness, the question of desires came up and with a little help from the wine, sexual tensions were ramped up! For the final half hour or so, my wife told me that they were all over each other like a rash! Groping, fondling, kissing and a little bit of biting! Time and location dictated that full sex, any oral or masturbation were out of the question but apparently there is chemistry there and a full blown date (with equipment and a hotel stop over) is on the cards in the very near future!

I can say that my excitement was very apparent while my wife relayed some of the details to me and as she was extremely horny, my wife wasted no time in having me inside her, during which I was told she WILL be fucking him and a few other things she is looking forward to!

After asking me afterwards if I was still ok about things and hearing my affirmative answer, I kissed her good night and drifted off to sleep but not before hearing some almost frantic texting going on. I can only presume to Justin?!

I look forward to how things progress and keeping this forum updated.

Thanks Luvr. I can’t tell you how invaluable your site has been. All other sites that I have visited relating to the topic of cuckolding have paled in comparison. They have been generally just smut peddling with no real substance behind them. Here we have genuine insight into the workings of cuckold lifestyles. The science behind it. The trials and tribulations of those who have genuine experience within the realm. Genuine advice from experinced cuckolds, wives and bulls alike.

I hope that in the near future I am in a position to relate my experiences to others and this website is the only platform I will be using.

Thanks again and I look forward to posting on the Success Stories forum………all being well!

I just received a call from my wife who was somewhat hungover after enjoying an alcohol fuelled night at a hotel with her boss. They had been asked to attend a conference of her hotel chain some 3 hour drive away. The conference is due to start at 1pm this afternoon, hence the overnight stay. Her opening words were “I did something naughty last night”. Half expecting to hear that she had had some liaison with another delegate, I held my breath to hear her next few words.”I fucked my boss last night……”.It took a moment or two before I gathered my thoughts and then I started to chuckle. I couldn’t help it. Even though we are on a path to cuckolding, her boss wasn’t my idea of a good mate for her. I’ve only met him a couple of times and he came across as being quite an awkward type and certainly no Adonis. My wife asked me why I was laughing and so explained my opinion of him to her.After reassuring her that I definitely wasn’t angry she gave a big sigh of relief.
I was still a little humoured by her admission at this point until I asked her if she had enjoyed it, to which she replied that she had. Then I got the unmistakable twitch in my dick. I then asked her “Has he got a big cock”? Her reply was in the affirmative. The twitch became a rush of blood to my 5 1/2″ dick. 
Regardless of my opinions, her boss is a general manager while I am only a department manager and while my wife didn’t get a tape measure out, her response made it obvious that he was bigger than me in the penis department. These two facts alone made him an Alpha male over me. Knowing that she was feeling delicate from the alcohol I told her we could discuss it further on her return. We had talked about about a few ground rules regarding her sleeping with other men a few days previously and my wife reminded me of this but we hadn’t thrashed out any details as this event certainly wasn’t on the cards. 
Although my wife has now enjoyed the cock of another man, I don’t feel like a true cuckold husband yet. Working with her boss on a weekly basis has the potential to change my perspective though. Time will tell. For now, I am just looking forward to hearing in more detail about her extra-marital coupling!

Thanks Luvr and I whole heartedly agree with your observations. Observations that you have covered in more detail in the various Guides here on your site. After further discussions with my wife, it seems apparent that there will be no “re-match”. Apart from his larger manhood, my wife has stated that he has no other redeeming features. My wife even went as far as to say that he was a poor lover and that she felt that SHE intimidated him in bed! It seems a case of a waste of a good cock and like a lot of aims in life, you have to go through some rock to get to the gold. The other major hitch with my wife’s boss is that he is married. As I mentioned in my last post we have settled on one golden rule of No Married Men. The complications that come with such liaisons are abundantly clear and as quite a bit of alcohol was involved, her mating with her boss was very spontaneous. For it to be so, there had to be underlying feelings. My wife suspects that her boss had fancied her for some time, so that explains his half of the act. My wife’s half was more likely to be the fact that she had gone without any real sex for a couple of weeks previous. I had been locked up or made to wear a hollow strap-on on her.

On the upside though, a door has definitely been opened. Seeing and hearing my positive reactions to her dalliance has seemingly spurred my wife on. In her own words she has seen “the green light” which has immediately given her more confidence to persue a hotwife/cuckold relationship. 

Another rule that we have agreed on is one that means that I will be informed, with a minimum period of 10 minutes notice before a coupling. This will be in place only for the early stages of our new relationship. As my wife gets more confident in her new role as “available” she will then take complete control of her own actions and decide if I get any notice or not. I sure hope I can have plenty of notice so that I can help her prepare for dates!

My wife is attending Kage this Sunday. A fetish/BDSM event here in Manchester. There my wife will be meeting the dominant suitor I wrote about in a previous post on this thread. As far as their embryonic relationship goes, they are just awaiting tests to confirm that he is clean. All being well they will pair up physically very soon afterwards. In the meantime, the dominant in question is going to introduce my wife to an established Hotwife at this event, in the hope that my wife can get some true-life, wife-to-wife perspective about cuckolding. After that, I would like my wife to spend a little more time going through this site as well as another site that is conducted by a Femdom Cuckoldress. As the old saying goes, knowledge is power.

I hope I will be writing in the Success Stories forum next time. Wish us luck!

Some fantasies should remain just that…….or simply have to remain just that.  That was the realisation from this past weekend.  When push comes to shove,  my wife just can’t make the leap of faith. Certainly not in the parameters we have tried at least.

We travelled 100 miles to a fetish event in Birmingham UK to broaden our kink horizons and to meet another couple of kinksters we had befriended on Twitter and Fetlife.  The general plan had been to enjoy a night in the host club, enjoy the sights and sounds and then on the following evening meet up with the couple in question for our own “play” time in a hotel.  My wife Domming me, the other guy Domming his partner and maybe together, them Domming both of us subs.  The end result being that me and the other female sub would end up having to watch our respective partners fuck each other while we were restrained and ridiculed/humiliated.  Perfect for me and as I understood it, perfect for my fellow sub.

Let me rewind a little and give you a brief recap of our previous 3rd party events.  After “the talk” my wife found herself sleeping with her boss (which turned out to be a poor event in itself) at an overnight business conference she had to attend and after hearing my favourable response she was more at ease with the idea of having sex with others.  A few short weeks later we had aranged to visit a low-key fetish event at which my wife ended up having sex with a Dominant she had befriended at local fetish “Munches”.  I was present for this coupling but a little disappointed with the way things had played out. My wife felt the same way in hindsight but it was another step towards her getting more comfortable with the whole cuckolding concept, so it wasn’t a total failure at all.  And back to the here and now……..

After the fetish event we went back to our hotel room and I was treated to some attention through the means of T&D, edging, humiliation etc and in ways that my wife got enjoyment from it too.  The following day we did very little.  We just lounged around in our room waiting for the evening to arrive and the real, main event.  As time wore on, I could sense a great deal of apprehension coming from my wife about the forthcoming events.  It was now or never to have another cards on the table talk.

 The bottom line was that my wife would have gone through with the plans had I not known her as well as I do and it would have been all in the name of pleasing me.  My wife, by her own admission would have felt terrible for a few days and possibly a few weeks afterwards but she said herself that she would’ve gotten over it.  My wife is a strong willed individual and would have met the challenge and all in the name of her love for me but the whole cuckold thing should never be about a personal challenge.  It should be done through a desire in all concerned.  Everyone involved should WANT it.  It’s possible that hormones were at play as she seemingly wanted it to happen earlier in the month when arrangements were made.  She would get so horny when we explored potential scenarios for the night in question and other unrelated cuckolding possibilities elsewhere.  

We made contact with the other couple and cancelled.  Thankfully, they were very understanding.  We then played by ourselves which culminated in me having to clean up   the mess I made of my wife’s pussy which was considerable after 6 weeks in chastity!  

We both agreed to a few changes in terms of our fantasies and if and how they might play out.  Based on my wife’s admission that spontaneity would have to be key if she was to ever have extra-marital cock, I gave her assurance that if a viable opportunity presented itself to her that she should go for it.  There will be no more planning to fuck other men.  While that initially excites her, there is too much room for her nerves and conscience to intervene.

cuckmatt

It’s been a while since I last posted on here but alas, the wheels of progress are are turning once more my my wife and me.

I’ve just been informed that my wife has arranged a date of sorts with a prospective lover. To say I am a little bit excited would be an understatement!

Over the last 4 to 5 months I had my turn in charge. We had some fun but as I’m sure I have mentioned previously, I’m least comfortable in the role of Dominant. During the time though, it came to light that my wife actually had a desire to see me with another woman, thus making her a cuckquean. We tried this avenue of 3rd party fun but with zero success. We joined a couple of adult dating/swinging sites but we were the mystical Unicorns it seemed. As a married man with a wife who ideally would like to watch her husband and perhaps serve him and a lover, we were like cryptonite to Superman. We had the merest of interest from a couple of women but when the push came to the shove, nothing.

Over the last few weeks of February, my wife’s naturally dominant persona were surfacing in the bedroom. She was itching to take control again and so we agreed to switch again. Once again we found our mojo and here I am, 2 weeks into being locked in chastity and the cuckold theme has been rapidly been pushed to the top of the agenda. If not the top, then a close second to a FLR based dynamic.

My wife seems to be in a much better mindset this time. Really understanding that things are about HER and a lot less about me. She has come to know that our love runs deep and strong and that we have the utmost trust in each other. As a result, my wife has taken the initiative and registered herself on a much more professional dating website. Unlike the others, she hasn’t had a million messages with cock pictures everywhere but a decent number of interested and well presented enquiries.

It’s funny really. At the same time that my wife was creating her dating account, I was drafting up a confession of sorts for my Tumblr blog that was very cuckold orientated. I posted it yesterday and my wife seemed very pleased with what she read. I’ve put a link to the blog post at the bottom so that you can see what angle I have on cuckolding and it’s various facets.

Last night my wife had me pay my respects and worship her sex orally. She made it quite clear that any release for me would be for hygiene purposes only and for an undetermined period of time. She was saying all this along with other torments whilst messaging one of the prospective lovers on kik!

That’s the story so far in a nutshell. I hope that in the near future, my wife will finally know what it’s like to taste the other flavours of ice-cream, to paraphrase Luvr!

Hi Luvr,

Thanks for your interest. I’ve resorted sending you a message via your contact form to bring you upto speed with things.

Thanks again.

It would appear that we are back on track for the moment. My wife has just arranged a “getting to know” date this Thursday evening with a guy from a dating website. He dropped off her radar last week after presumably getting cold feet? I will return to this thread on Friday with any news.

This evening, my wife will be going on her “getting to know” date a guy that she sourced from a dating website. Unfortunately she will be going straight from work and so I won’t be able to see her in her outfit that she has chosen for the date. Fortunately though, she just posted a couple of pictures to Twitter showing me what ensemble she has chosen. A smart red satin blouse, knee length pencil skirt with kitten heel stilettos to finish off. My favourite look and one that is acceptable for her work place. I don’t know whether she has done it for a tease or whether she has plans of using them but she’s also packed a supply of condoms too! Either way, my locked up dick is testing its chastity device!

The above date never happened. The candidate was a no-show. That was some time ago now.

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StokeUKcpl……I couldn’t have put it better myself.  That feeling of being only moments away from orgasm, on the edge, is like no other feeling. Knowing that only a few strokes could be your undoing after a fair period of denial (and teasing).  Unless it’s experienced, I really don’t see how it can be understood?  

I’m writing this, mainly as a distraction for myself. The reason being is that my wife just called me let me know that everything is going perfectly on her 2nd date with the Portuguese man that I wrote about on here previously.  After a little wining and dining, they are just about have dessert….in their hotel room. That’s how well things are going for us all.

The build up to this repeat coupling has taken me a little bit by surprise.  After my wife’s first date success, it was looking like business as usual.  That being that her date would be gently given the boot and then blocked in every way possible from further communication with her, only this time, on reflection and further discussion with me it was decided that this particular bridge wasn’t going to be burned.  

Surprise surprise if after the first date there wasn’t a lot of attempts by Jo (we’ll call him) to keep things burning between him and my wife.  This I thought was surely going to get him a slammed door in his face but my wife, masterfully brought the situation into line with her early plans.  If a repeat meet was going to happen then he was going to have to play a longer game and a game made with the rules that my wife made and the first rule was about being perfectly honest with him about our home life.  

Right from the word “go”, there was always a nagging feeling that Jo hadn’t really grasped what WE were offering and that may have been down to some marginal language barriers.  We think that Jo may have been under the impression that our relationship status was perhaps married but separated but still good friends-that-occasionally-have-candle-lit-meals-in-restaurants-together or that we were just friends when he met us on that night at his place of work?  I know that the first impression I just gave was a bit whack but you have to cover all the bases.  So my wife started off with some very strong hints about being decidedly un-vanilla in the bedroom which then led on to telling him that her relationship with me was stronger than ever.  We waited for his responses and to the first confession, he seemed quite OK with things.  Such a response made things much easier when it came to telling Jo about second confession, which again, he seemed to take in his stride.  He could have possibly run a mile after hearing the story but he didn’t and so my wife then began controlling the pace of communications between them.  If he contacted her, she would make him wait a little for her response.  She would keep things very superficial in terms of what was said and so on. 

Over the course of the next three weeks, things seemed to settle down to a very steady pace.  They made initial plans to meet last weekend but Jo fell ill so they penciled this weekend into their diaries for the return meet.  This time, it was decided by my wife that things would be hotel based, giving neutrality to proceedings.  Previously, upon waking up at Jo’s place the morning after the night before and having no car meant she felt a little trapped in circumstances.  Especially as he lived a good distance away from our town.  On hearing about this new arrangement I caved in and at an oppertune moment, I peeked at my wife’s phone to get an idea about how things had been going.  I didn’t have to go sneaking about.  Had I asked her to show me, she would’ve let me but I didn’t want to crowd her at such an early stage of things. Anyway, what I discovered was enough to get my dick stirring in my boxers! Quite a lot of flirting AND a few photo’s had been sent between them and I’m not talking about family photo’s either! 

So here I am at home while my wife is having great sex with a guy who she finds very attractive too………again!  As an organic process, we have to take each small and large event as they come.  But we must also try and look at all eventualities , both good and bad and steer our ship around them the best way that we can and that is by continuing to talk with each other often and in a frank manner.  Right now though, it’s 00:20am GMT and I’m experiencing one of the greatest sensations a cuckold can and that is angst. Angst at not being able see or hear my wife’s moans of passion at the hands of another man.  Maybe one day.

Thanks for the kind words yorks cuck,

I think that by letting my wife take the reins, it has allowed her to be much more comfortable in her role.  I guess that 99% of the time it us men who instigate this kind of thing and more often than not, our wives are shocked to say the least.  So once we have had the “talk”, we can encourage, cajole and nudge our better halves in to the direction we would like things to go but at the end of the day, our wives get to make the final decision on these things.  When those decisions are not to our liking, we must still support them and honour them.  When they are favourable decisions, then the same applies.

The last 3 episodes for us have not been very typical of some of the stories you might read but instead, have been part of the early stages of our cuckold journey.  We have to take the rough with the smooth.  The first of the three episodes ended with my wife’s old FB disappearing to the other side of the world for an indefinite period of time.  Plus the fact that he had a girlfriend made it even more unlikely that it could be something that could be repeated.  The latest two occasions with Jo have been a success considering that he was a complete unknown entity only a month or so ago, but it’s not a forgone conclusion that there will be a third or more meets.  There is a very slight language barrier which my wife tells me, makes conversation awkward and then there’s his stamina.  He goes and goes and then goes some more and lengthy sex is not something that my wife is into.  She likes it hard and fast.  She doesn’t mind a rest and going again but 2 hours + of fucking without a break is a bit much!  The guy needs to learn to relax……and cum!

Regardless of any negatives though, my wife has come home happy and satisfied.  Happy that she has a loving husband to come home to and one that is more than happy to see her happiness increased by her freedom to get sexual satisfaction and fulfilment from other men. 

I might not have been lucky enough yet to have been in the same place as my wife and Jo, let alone the same room but I’ve discovered another facet to cuckolding that I wasn’t expecting and that is, how my wife’s sexual happiness under cuckolding circumstances turned me on!

NB. The above was wrote 24 hours after my wife’s return. Below this is an account of what’s being going on over the last 12-24 hours.

On reflection, it’s looking less likely that my wife will meet Jo again. Apart from his stamina and the slight language barrier, it’s come to light that he may have the looks and the cock but he is seriously lacking in the charisma and imagination categories. There isn’t room here to explain things too much but I can say that my wife feels that without a couple of drinks, conversation would be minimal between them. There’s nothing to connect them intellectually. And then there’s the sex. Their second coupling was almost pump for pump, position for position replicated. My wife doesn’t fancy a 3rd round of exactly the same. If you’ve been following this thread then you know that my wife would be more than appreciative of a man who could take the lead and if he could lord it over her, then she would have won the lottery! Jo is not that man unfortunately. There are a couple of other issues besides but I’m not at liberty to disclose those.

So now it’s back to letting life unfold in the way it wants to. 

Rough with the smooth.

cuckmatt.

Lyle,

I’m far from being an expert or a seasoned pro at these things so how much you read into what I say is entirely up to you.  The only angle I can think of for you is the patience one.  Although you and your wife are opening up for an outsider, I would say allow them to become somewhat familiar with themselves before demanding an audience?  Sure, being in the general vacinity is a good thing.

Your wife may need your support at a moments notice if things don’t go according to plans.  It may be just comforting embrace after a poor performance or it could be a ride home if she gets cold feet at the last moment. Being in the same room could have an adverse effect on their performance and just be a poor experience all round.  It’s all about the big picture other wise you may as well be approaching yours and your wife’s activities as kind of single installment of a mmf threesome with the difference being that you take a more passive role and having a reduced participation?  

If to be cuckolded is what you want, you are going to have to work hard at repressing that competitive streak within you too or it once again becomes an equality thing on the physical side of things….which means a mmf threesome.  

Talk some more with your wife. You need to convey your thoughts to her and work things out together.

cuckmatt

StokieUKCpl,

I’m really very unqualified to comment on your situation. You appear to have had a pretty successful beginning to your cuckold journey.  What I’m getting here is that somewhere, some of your needs were lost and instead of the relationship being a 3 way thing with your wife being central, her lover has taken precedence.  Him and your wife are, to my mind are abusing the privilege that was bestowed upon them.  You need have a REALLY good talk with YOUR wife.  Actually put the cuckold side of your life down for a set period. A day, a week, a month and get back to you as a couple.  The original couple. 

I hope that what I’ve said makes sense and you can get things back on an even keel.

cuckmatt.

Rob,

I couldn’t agree more.  Cuckolding is about three people getting their rocks off.  You’ve obviously come to an understanding with your wife about her being able to see the guy as and when but you deserve the courtesy of being in the know at any and every meeting.  Already I’m getting the sense that the BIG talk is overdue and that perhaps it’s time to draw a line under this particular Bull/Boyfriend/Lover. Hopefully your wife will agree with you and he can be cut out almost immediately and with as little residual effect on your wife as possible.

cuckmatt