I have said yes to making him a Cuckold

Well done you, I wish you both all the happiness and success as you continue life’s journey together. Over 13 years and two children you will have encountered and overcome (together) the many obstacles and irritating difficulties that life likes to throw at us, my advice would be to remember that you have arrived at this point in your marriage by resolving things together as a family, of course you are nervous but that is to be expected it is a new step but you have experienced that nervousness many times in your life before, hopefully you had family and friends that helped you during those times. Think back and draw confidence from what has gone before and boldly go into this new and exciting adventure together, it is after all only broadening what you already have, widening your sexual experience within your marriage, its all about you and your husband and what you both want to experience together and if as a married couple you want to invite other males into your relationship for both social and sexual pleasure….then why shouldn’t you, it is your marriage, your life and your happiness. My husband always has maintained that….. enjoyment of sex is no different to any other pleasurable experience in life, so why not enjoy exploring all the possibilities that it has to offer and don’t feel guilty because you do get to enjoy the diverse pleasures other men can offer you, life is just to short not to.

Love Pandora and Husband    

The fact that it required such careful deliberation on your part indicates the value you place on your marriage and husband and that is always a healthy indicator that this experience will be one that is shared between you rather than something allowed to come between you.

Lovers, boyfriends – no matter how intense the relationship, are always disposable.

I’m very glad to hear you’ve been lurking here a while, absorbing the ‘culture’, so to speak. If you have any particular questions about moving forward, please post them, or join us in the chatroom.

You are most welcome, I wish you and your family every happiness for the future and of course a very much more sexually enriched marriage, so enjoy your sexual adventures……..your husband most certainly will lol.

Bye

Pandora x

Congratulations Liz and best of luck to you and your husband.

I read many similarities of your situation with our situation 13 years ago. We had been married about 15 years had three children and it was hubby’s idea. I to was surprised and upset when first suggested. I took over a year and a half to explore and discover about the lifestyle before I was cautiously willing to try it.

It sounds as if you have a strong relationship with your husband and that is important. Initially I misunderstood hubby’s idea as a lack of love for me but now I see it is exactly the opposite…it is a very deep expression of his love for me.

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Denise

Nine years ago, I wasn’t familiar with the words cuckold, hotwife and a lot of other terms when my wife and I agreed to have an open marriage. I was dealing with some health issues that left me impotent and her need for sex led us to finder her a lover. I eventually recovered and after I was able to perform sexually, rather than go back to monogamy we decided to remain non monogamous. She had become very fond of her lover and we started having threesomes and our relationship evolved. I never had a cuckold fetish as such but I loved to hear my wife talk about her promiscuous teen years. Over the years, since this all started, we experimented and as we learned and experimented we now find ourselves in a true cuckold marriage.

hwhub. Well done it is great to read the transition you and your wife have transcended through. What I like is that you both are totally compatible about your composition with your wife having another man. So nice to see. Enjoy it while you can and savour the special moments you all get when together. 

Can hubby handle seeing you with a superior Black Bull? I’m in New York, but travel for the right “opportunity”…