Our Cuckold Journey

We are in an unique situation. We met in high school back in 1976. Got married in 1981, separated and divorced in 2007. We got back together in the fall of 2012 and are got remarried in the late summer of 2013.

I guess to the outside world you can say we are your typical suburban couple. Three kids, a grand son, two cars, a dog and a nice house. But in the shadows and behind closed doors we are anything but typical. We have had an interest in alternative sexual activities going all the way back to when we met.

Our journey into cuckolding is fairly new. It started when we were back together about a month and one of A’s former FWB’s contacted her for a booty call. She asked me if it was ok for her to go see him. I was ecstatic because I have always had a fascination with the idea of her fucking other men. I had been trying to get her to cuckold me even prior to our separation. When she came home and I ate her well used pussy, we were both so turned on that we knew this is something that we wanted to do more. A read all of the blogs and guides on this site and said lets get to finding some guys.

We have been active members of the Chicago Area BDSM community for over 15 years, so meeting people is not a problem for us. Weeding out the fakes and wannabees is easy, and there are a lot out there. We joined Adult FriendFinder and have had many interesting responses so far. It is amazing how many guys do not attempt to read our profile. They just think that because they have a picture of their cock as their main picture A is going to jump in the sack with them.

We have met and played with many great guys over the past two years and have also ran across a few duds along the way.  Over all being part of this lifestyle has been a blast for both of us and has brought us so much closer together.

 

Below is a post from our blog on AFF.  It is our wedding ceremony when we got remarried:

 

 

We have been planning our wedding over the past few months and just got re-married on 8-17-13. As stated in other posts, we have been involved in the BDSM lifestyle for many years. K has been involved with a Kinky Camping event called Twisted Tryst since 2008. We decided that since our relationship is what society deems “non-traditional” we would get remarried at this event in front of people that would understand and accept our relationship.

Below is the text of our ceremony: (I did not include names)

We are gathered today for a very special occasion….the RE-marriage of A&K

A and K were high school sweethearts. They met in 1976 at a friend’s birthday party. A was 15 and K was 16. It took K a month to get up the courage to call and invite her to the movies.

Five years later, they were married on Valentine’s Day in 1981. They had a daughter, two sons and 26 years of marriage. Life brings both ups and downs, and in 2010 they divorced. But K always new that A would come back one day. In October of 2012, she moved back in and the rest is history in the making.

They both agreed that “Sometimes you need to be apart for awhile to realize what is important.” And what is important is that they are soul mates.

Perhaps the only thing truer than one’s first love..Is to recommit to that love before family and friends.

A and K have chosen this group of family and friends in part because their marriage, like much of what each of us do, what what makes us a family and Tribe is a non-traditional one.

An important part of their vows to each other, and their wedding today, is their celebration of A’s status as a cuckolding wife and K’s public acceptance of his role and position in their relationship and commitment to his vows of chastity and fidelity, in the presence of their chosen family and friends.

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*To A: Are you ready to proceed?
*To Both: And are you both ready (to assert) and (to demonstrate) your deep love and commitment to each other her today?
*To A: Please kiss your husband.

*To A:
– Do you declare your rights and freedoms as a cuckolding wife here today?
– Do you take K as your husband and cuckold to cherish as well as to control?
– Do you promise to tease, frustrate and deny him as a cuckolded husband should be?
– Do you promise to pursue and use other men for your pleasure and to enjoy yourself with anyone that you desire?
– Do you promise to let your cuckold husband watch you with your sexual partners or tell him every detail of how they please you?
– Do you promise to be a good partner to your studs?

*To K:

– Do you promise to and accept being a faithful cuckold in body, mind and spirit, freely and without hesitation?
– Do you accept the position of cuckold husband with the understanding that A has complete freedom to have sex with whomever she wants, while you must remain completely faithful to her?
– Do you promise to love A and support her pursuit of sexual pleasure in affairs be they long-term, short-term or one-night stands?
– Do you promise to help find competent partners for your wife, to provide her with the sexual pleasure that she deserves?

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A and K have chosen heartfelt symbols of their commitment with each other.

First, the traditional symbolism of wedding rings. An unbroken commitment to each other, placed on a finger that in some traditions is believed to be directly connected to the heart. They have chosen new rings to symbolize their new relationship and new life together

And in celebration of their new roles. An ankle bracelet for A, which is the traditional symbol of her status as a “Hot Wife”. It signifies her freedom to pursue relationships with other people. As he kneels to place the bracelet, K demonstrates his devotion and submission to his wife and to her making and keeping him a cuckold.

For K, a lock for the chastity device he wears for her. Both are symbols of his commitment to fidelity, faithfulness and chastity, at and for her pleasure.

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A repeat after me:

– Once before I have stood with you before family and friends. Once again, I take your hand as my partner. You were and are my love, for life. I take you this day and for all days as my husband.

K please kneel and repeat after me:

– Once before I have stood with you before family and friends. This time I freely kneel to take your hand as my partner. You were and are my love, for life. I take you this day and for all days as my wife.

*And with that, I now pronounce you a cuckolded husband and Hot Wife. May your new marriage be long and satisfying (or frustrating) one for each of you.

*To A: Congratulations!!

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There were many friends in attendance for the wedding. We had a gentleman playing his trumpet. We had a 21 “crack” salute by three close friends using bull whips. Our wedding party consisted of two age players as flower girl and ring bearer. We had three brides maids (two ladies and a gay man wearing a wig and tutu.

Our friends and the organizers of the camping event went above and beyond to make this day so very special for the both of us.

The night before the wedding was the last time that K was allowed to ejaculate into A’s pussy. A said that it is going to be a very long time before she allows it again.