Yeah it’s all up to her. I have to wait as long as it takes it’s her decision and her pace not mine

All you can do is suggest, guide gently and the rest has to come from her.

Unfortunately right now there isn’t a good candidate that she would be into. I keep hoping one comes around. If she finds the right person in the right situation id think she would go for it with my encouragement.

Part of me wonders if the reality took the “taboo” out ofit. It got her off because it was a secret kink of hers that she wante…[Read more]

L was like this also, for years even flirting whilst she was out, but it took for a guy to make a genuine, considered approach to her that tipped her over. Is there such a guy she might like?
There is some excelled advice on here on getting started so do read up. This is only our situation and every couple is unique in their approach and desires.…[Read more]

I love fbat story it gives me hope. So maybe a part of her still thinks I dont mean it, or there’s some other secret motive behind it. Which idont know- she knows how much it turns me on ive showed her. A year ago when we were talking about this fantasy in depth i would be hard as a rock while we sat and talked about it.

When she admitted that s…[Read more]

Has she ever flirted/mentioned or even hinted about another guy, either in the bedroom or when you’ve just been chatting over a glass of wine. Every experience is different. Here is a short version of how it happened for us:

Even before I knew it, she was already settling for less than what she’d had with other boyfriends.

Alongside all of t…[Read more]

The wedding is this weekend. Flying early hours tomorrow. Will let you know how it goes.
As a further concession to me, while I am not allowed to witness actual real-time coupling intimacy for the short-term course of their relationship, they have hinted that I may look forward to a few clips of them via pics when they are at the wedding. He has…[Read more]

I am in Copenhagen. If you want to talk..