I have not posted in awhile , years after our first encounter that I told the story above , we continued to seek out younger black men. We are now in our sixties and she has enjoyed many usually MM but once in a club , when the first one was done and my wife was getting dressed another BBC came in the room ,said she isn’t done , I left to get s…[Read more]

Glad I could provide a small bit of insight. Hopefully your current situation will work out well. If not that’s why we are here. To help each other along.

Hi Luvinsunshine,

I can definitely see how dating younger guys could work as a means keeping some emotional distance. If my wife decides that this lifestyle is a thing that we should get used to, I will certainly lay that down as a brilliant piece of advice!

We have discussed the future a little and right now, in my wife’s mind, we have found…[Read more]

Developing feelings is a slippery slope and a easy way to end up with a divorce. In the beginning there was a close call for us. The guy attempted to get way to close. Even when we explained that wasn’t going to happen he wasn’t deterred. I had to break up with him and it didn’t go well. We took a long break before trying again. It’s great for you…[Read more]

Thanks Motley!