I’d like to officially welcome ArapahoDom to the newly created Dom category here at Cuckold Marriage.
I have been a Dom for thirty years and cuckolding couples for seventeen years. I love the cuckold dynamic; the honesty and transparency. It is the most intimate relationship model; it compels the couple to be open. There is very little in life as gratifying as a couple that has never cuckolded and making them see and understand, reassuring their fears and leading them through living their fantasy to fulfillment then building the relationship to ever greater heights of intimacy and intensity.Giving a wife the permission of her husband without judgment or condemnation; having the husband hear and see his wife in such ecstacy, cumming again and again, begging for her Master; leading them both to a new model of intimacy and trust between themselves is extraordinarily pleasing. Her knowing she is owned and Mine, to be used and taken often and where and when I wish, her being shown off and understanding how beautiful and desirable she is, watching her flower and blossom in a way she never has before is what I seek and live to make happen. I am in Colorado, 49 years old, 6 foot and 200 pounds. I have had cuckold relationships lasting five and nine years. I look for that one right couple for the very long term. The couple who values the connection and wants it to last.
My wife has had sex with one other man, but it lasted for a number of years from her teens until after we were married. He was much older than her, and so quite dominant, which she liked, and she says he always fucked her well ( he was, in her words ‘rather large’!!) and gave her lots of orgasms.
It gets me hot to think of her doing him (I wasn’t aware of their ‘meetings’ at the time) and I would like for her now to experience something similar, but with my full knowledge and involvement.
my wife has had many other men but i would like her to have a steady bull
I have a very beautiful 21 year old wife whom I love deeply, and I know is into the bdsm side of life, she loves to be submissive but also knows I prefer to be the submissive one. She asserts authority over me to a certain extent, but I’d like us to enter into the cuckold lifestyle.
She is aware I have no problem with her being ravaged by other men but is hesitant to do something like that. I really am trying, slowly to introduce cuckold themed ‘links’ to our relationship like rollplay etc and since she has wanted a larger vibrator, much bigger than me (though I’m about average). But I think she needs guidance, I’m not sure, would you, or a bull you know perhaps be able to talk with her/seduce her into the lifestyle?
Future cuck looking for advice from the men.
Jay, I sent you the introduction to the hotwife role (PDF).
http://cuckoldmarriage.info/wp-content/PDF/Marital-Role-Hotwife.pdf
In your case I would suggest you let her read it while she’s in a dominant and playful mood.
Hi Arapaho. I tingle with excitement to think of you pleasing my pretty wife outside of our marriage for the first time in our twenty eight years together. She is very pretty, sexy, sassy and flirtatious, but has been a loyal wife up to now. I have been interested in cuckolding for some time and have slowly introduced the topic to her and now we fantasize about it, but have not taken the plunge yet. It thrills me to think of serving her up to someone and wise, virile and experienced as you. I have considerable ‘cuckold angst’ at times and would need some help in this regard. She is reticent and thinks I couldn’t handle it, but I think I could. I think about it every day. Hope to get a response from you, Mat.
Welcome ArapahoDom !!
I have spoken to Arapaho on a few ocassions and I have found Him to be insightful, confident, intelligent, caring and very attentive.
He genuinely seeks to explore and bring out the best from a married woman and her cuckold marriage. He is the type of lover that understands and knows how to deal with the rainbow of emotions a cuckold couple can experience and enjoy together.
According to what we have chatted about, I too, would not hesitate to allow my wife to invest and commit to a caring relationship with Arapaho. His participation and leadership would help reorganise and develop us as a married couple which would be very meaningful for my wife and I. My feelings are that with long-term involvement, a Man like Arapaho would profoundly change the way Emma and I view marriage and how it functions.
Lucky for those cuckold couples in Colorado wanting to explore their potential, allowing Arapaho to expose their marital gaps, fulfill those deeper needs, especially for her, and allowing Him to create space for greater emotional intimacy and stability within their marriages.
I could say much more about the little I know of Arapaho.
All loving cuckold marriages should have the opportunity to include and embrace a leader like Him.